How do i tell my mom that not only and i not a virgin anymore but i think i'm pregnant?

Question

I am going to be an up coming jr. in high school and this summer i made the biggest mistake of my life by loosing my virginity and my period has not came on at its correct time. I don't know 4 sure if i'm pregnant or not so i need help in lett9ing my mother know whats going on should i wait and see what happens or should i tell my mother and go to the doctor.

Answer 1

"Mum, I've became sexually active, I think I might be pregnant..can you help me please..?"

Answer 2

ok walk to the closest drug store and buy a pregnacy test and put it in ur backpack and go to a friends house and take it there. if it comes out positivie u will have to tell your mom. If it is positive this is exactly what you say; " Mom, I made a Huge mistake,i am pregnant, i need your help to deliver a healthy baby." Call the social workers in your town and arrange to have ur baby adopted.  U might get kicked out of your school but next time dont do it!

Answer 3

You sound as if you are freaking out.  Go to the drugstore and buy a pregnancy test, and/or go to the Doctor to confirm.  Do NOT tell your mother anything until you have figured out that detail!  (that's huge)

Hoping that you are NOT pregnant, you have learned a lesson.  DON"T have s*x without protection. Ever. Ever. NEVER.  Meanwhile, depending upon your relationship with your mother, sharing these things is something to be done calmly and in a supportive atmosphere. (which is why I strongly suggest you find out about your 'condition' before you do so)  DON'T tell her you are pregnant unless you are positive!  

"Saving yourself for someone special," is what my Mother always told me. (which backfired because I therefore thought that the first man I had s*x with was that 'someone special.')  But, it's good advice.....it takes a full year to know someone, and you are young, young, young to KNOW yourself-

Put the s*x thing in the closet....get straight with who you are and what you want to do- where and with whom....there's so much in this life.....a boy (NOT a man) can wreck your life---not to mention another person's life IF you do get pregnant.

Answer 4

ya big mistake u will just have to tell her good luck

Answer 5

Heya,

You need to tell her, take a pregnancy test first thing tomorrow and tell her the truth

How old are you and your boyfriend?? If you were considering becoming sexually active you should have use contraception(birth control and condoms) and I just wish you good luck girl, good luck x0x0x

Answer 6

Get a pregnancy test first so you don't give your mother a heart attack. Be sure you are pregnant first.

If it is positive, tell your mom you made a mistake. Say "I had s*x, and now I'm pregnant. I could really use your support in deciding what I should do with the baby. I don't deserve your help, but I would greatly appreciate it. "

Answer 7

Make sure you put across the fact that it was a HUGE mistake. Maybe then she will understand that it wasnt intentional and you came to her first. Maybe then she will be more nice and understanding! x

Answer 8

You should take a pregnancy test first, they sell them at any drugstore, and once you know then you can tell her. If you are pregnant then it's better to know for sure and then tell her, rather than saying you might be. And if you are, just explain that you realize it was a mistake and you're taking responsibility, and I'm sure she'll be disappointed and upset, but if you're mature about it she'll see that and help you. And if you aren't pregnant then you don't necessarily need to tell her that you aren't a virgin, but if you feel the need to, it would be a lot better to tell her once you know you aren't pregnant, and you should probably leave the pregnancy scare part out so she doesn't think you're irresponsible. But regardless, just be honest with her and just tell her straight up what happened and that you need help.

Answer 9

First, you probably should talk to your mom...second, it could just be your body's way of reacting to you having s*x so young...my body did the same thing...but i would be careful...just in case you are...and if your mother loves you like she should she will love you still after you tell her.  I know it's not an easy thing to do but you need her to know so you guys can talk about what happened.  There will probably be a lot of crying and screaming, but when it's over with you both will still love each other.  I wish you luck!

Answer 10

you go up to her and say,

"Mom, I made a mistake, I lost my virginity and there is a chance I may be pregnant, I need your help and want to go to the doctor to get everything checked out.  Will you help me please?"

If she is in any way a decent human being she will help you.

Answer 11

First off i'd take a pregnancy test if i were you, you wont want to over-whelm your mother if you dont have to. And if the test is postive the best thing you can do is come right out and talk to her about it, or if you dont think you can do it face to face you could always write her a letter. Either way you might want to go to the doctor to get checked out. You might have just missed your period due to stress or change in activity or a recent loss/gain in weight

Answer 12

i think u should try to find out if Ur pregnant or not . dont put your mom through that for no reason . take a pregnancy test and if its positive ask ur mom to take u to your family doctor.

hope i helped = ]