How do i tell my mum im seeing an 18 year old?

Question

im 15 on saturday, and ive been told i look about 19 myself. ive been told im very pretty and i am part of a modelling agency at the moment. i think i am very grown up for my real age and i cant stand boys my own age. there so immature and annoying that all they want is s*x, s*x, s*x. and all they talk about is s*x, s*x, s*x. so i go for the older type.. 17/18. lads what can take you for a drive, buy you nice things, care for you properly. and at the moment i am seeing an 18 year old but i dont know how to tell my mum. she has let me see a 17 year old before... i just dont know what to say to her this time. he drops me off at the bottom of my road so she doesnt see ive been out in cars etc and he is absolutely gorgeous. i really really like him, i dont want the "hes too old", "i dont want you in cars". of my mum.. what do i say too her. help guys. xxxxx

Answer 1

If you have been out with a boy before who is 17 while you was younger, I'm sure 18 is just a year older. Makes no different with age.

Tell your mother that you really like this boy and you want her to meet him, get to know him. Tell her that boys your age are too immature, and that a 18 year old lad treats you well.

Also say, that nothing is going to change my mind, I really like him. See what she says.

Answer 2

I feel the same way boys our age (15) are idiots.

Just tell her, or wait till you've been 15 for a while. So then it's only a 3 year gap. My ex boyfriend was 19 and my mum didn't mind but we broke up because I realised he was too old for me, the things he would say and I'd be like wtf.

Anyway, you should tell her. I'm sure she'll understand if she's let you date a 17 year old before.

Good luck.

Answer 3

If he was a nice guy and had respect for you then he wouldnt sneek around behind your mums back, he should leave you alone till he knows your mum is ok with it!

Answer 4

The best way and the way in which you are likely to gain the most respect and understanding from your mum is to take your boyfriend to meet her. Sneaking around will only upset her and is more likely to end up in her saying "he's too old" however if you're both mature enough to sit down in front of her and let her get to know him she'll be less concerned that he may be only after one thing and more likely to let you carry on seeing him.

Answer 5

i agree with lynne n its true that wot is on a boys mind 24/7 is s*x and i no u sAId u dont want to hear it but its true im not going to say that hes to old as my friend is 20 this year and she was 14 when she started dateing her bf who was 18 and there still togather now have there own houseand are still mad about each other think how ur mum would feel if ur bf crashed the car and u was in hospital and she didnt no were u was? i no for a fact if that happen to me my mum would be more angry that i didnt tell her. x

Answer 6

you don't, its your life do what you want

Answer 7

If an 18 yr old has to drop you off at the bottom of your road so your mum doesn't find out then it sounds like he's a loser!

Answer 8

Any Mum of a teenage daughter will say 'I don't want you in cars'. It wouldn't matter if you were the same age, it would still be an issue. Even though you think that he is mature, he is still a young boy in your mum's eyes. If he really is lovely as you say, you should introduce them and let your mum get to know him.

Answer 9

You know what the biggest sign of immaturity is?

"I think I'm very grown up for my real age."

No, you're not - you're a normal fifteen year old who thinks that fifteen is adult. When you realise that you are only fifteen and that no eighteen year old is remotely interested in a little kid, other than because nobody his own age will even look at him...THEN you'll be grown up for your real age.

Lads who can care for you properly and buy you nice things? What are you, a pet cat? You don't want a boyfriend, you want an owner! If I was your mum you wouldn't be out of my sight! Relationships are a partnership of equals, and you're so not there yet.

Answer 10

believe me, an 18 year old still wants 's*x s*x s*x', he's just learned to be more subtle about it...

Answer 11

well if she let you see a 17 year old then 18 aint but one year older and she shouldn't care how old he is as long as he treat you right and age ain't nothing but a number