How do i tell my my mom i m beluimic..

Question

every one says i should talk to some one

i ve told some of my friends anthere like u need to tell your mom

an i m afraid to

cuase shes always on my case about having on becuase she had a eating disorder to she was anerexic as a teen an i m beluemic so shes going to be mad at me it hit me when i went to the dentist an i had like two cavitys i was like ... an i m not even really skinny i m like 5'5 5'3 an like 137 so i m just like sorta average i guess idk but i m not really skinny but i know i have a problem how can i tell her i m really scared

Answer 1

It was kind of hard to figure out what you were trying to say, but I think I got it.

Admitting that you have a problem is the hardest part.

Bulimia is a disease. Talk to your friend's parents, your family doctor or the school nurse about it and ask them if they can recommend someone for you to talk to about it.

When you talk to your mother let her know that you realized that you have a problem and that you need help. Be honest with her. I'm sure she will be upset because she knows how dangerous this is. I doubt that she will hit you though.

If your mother hits you for being sick, she needs counseling. Ask someone in authority, like the doctor or the nurse, to explain to her that this isn't your fault.

You will both need help dealing with this.

Here are some links.

http://www.mirror-mirror.org/child.htm

http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/...

http://kidshealth.org/kid/health_problem...

http://www.womenshealth.gov/faq/Easyread...

Answer 2

just talk to her..i know how it feels i am a guy who is 6'1 and weighs 136-140 depending on how active i am.no matter how much i eat i cannot gain the weight,and i lose what ever weight i get easily.for me a typical day is waking up at noon eating breakfast at 2-3 in the afternoon,and eating dinner at 7-8 then doing the whole thing over again.so i don't eat to much but,when i do eat,cus my parents try to make me eat,i won't gain anything.

at least you admit you have a problem..if you can't seem to talk to your mom see if she can't take you to a doctor and tell him your problem..hope this helped

Answer 3

No matter how awkward it sounds you got to come clean to your mom. If you tell her she can get you help. If its to weird for you to say "Mom I'm beluimic." try rephrasing it like that you have a disorder or problem. Also dont say its benn a secret for a long time so you don't get in trouble which I'm almost certain you won't.

Answer 4

Girlfriend-If you can't talk to your mother about this. I would go and talk to your family doctor about it. I'm 31 years old and I have been told by many doctors that I'm both of them and I started when I was 13. And I haven't stop yet and I'm telling you I have ALOT of health prolbems. I have been told that I'm having the same health prolbems that a person in their 60's are having. That I was told by my doctors. Also just the other day my doctor told if I don't stop I'll be dead before I see my 40th B-DAY. So you do need to talk to someone. I don't want anyone, I do not wish all this pain onto someone. It has made my life a living h**l.