How do i tell my parents that i have or i want to have s*x??

Question

Well...my name is Leah and i am 13 years olde. My parents havent gave me tha talk yet and i dnty think they care and i hav had s*x...but how do i tell them???? i think i mite be prgnant...HOW DO I TELL THEM?????

Answer 1

tell ur parents that u think u might be prego and theyll figure it out then they can take the necessary actions from there

Answer 2

well i think that you arnt old enough yet and thats why they havnt had the talk yet! also if i was you i would get a test or see your doc

Answer 3

Just sit one of them down and say, "I'm pregnant"

If they start yelling, take it, ur only thirteen.

Answer 4

Dont tell them ...

I never had that stupid Famous "talk"

                 And you Are 13 belive me you dont wanna have s*x

Answer 5

Sit down and say, "Mom, Dad, I think I'm in big trouble and I need your help -- I think I might be pregnant."  

That's all you need to say, dear.  Don't beat around the bush, don't leave little hints, don't write a note -- after all, if you're old enough to have s*x, you're old enough to tell your parents. Oh, wait . . .

Answer 6

UMM.

LMFAO.

Answer 7

First make sure U R really pregnant.

Second, stick with oral s*x or same s*x until U get more experience.

Ask your parents what they think about Jamie Lynn Spears having a baby.

Answer 8

You should probably confirm your pregnancy before frightening them with it. Take a pregnancy test if you have missed your period - your period may be pretty irregular considering your age so wait a few weeks after you last had s*x to take the test.

As far as your parents go, you should sit them down and talk about s*x openly. Make sure they aren't busy. Understand that they're going to be surprised - it's always a shock to hear your little girl (I know, you aren't little anymore but parents still think of you that way) talk about s*x.

Answer 9

calmly explain 2 ur parents the situation and *hope* they understand

Answer 10

You need to sit down with which ever of them you're closest to and tell them that you need their help. Just be honest - be prepared that they might freak out about hearing that you've had s*x. Expect it. Empathize with them, "I know that you're upset and disappointed."

What makes you think you are pregnant? Cuz that's going to be another difficult thing to ask about on top of the s*x part.

Answer 11

if you simpley say "mom, dad, i think i am pregnant", they will get the idea.

Answer 12

pull a juno,

figure out exactally what you're going to do and then sit them down and tell them.

Answer 13

hahahaha omg

Answer 14

I would go to your mom

Tell her you had s*x, and you think you could be pregnant, can you see her OB/Gyn

I would not tell your father until you know for sure

Answer 15

Ok ... you could tell your parents face to face(it's better to tell them face to face) (mum, dad i might be pregnant) but if you REALLY can't face telling them write a letter to them. Once they know they should get you a pregnancy test and if your pregnant they maybe angry at first, but hopefully will support you all the way through your pregnancy, whatever you decide to do!! =)

Good Luck!! =)

Hope this helps!! =)

Answer 16

did you do a test? You have to tell them if you are pregnant but if your not i wouldnt tell them. If your not be grateful and get on the pill! Planned parenthood has a program called Teen Time that will give anyone under 18 birthcontrol for free! If you do not have this program in your state you may want to contact a womens clinic in your area and see what they offer, usually its really cheap or even free!

If you are.. you just have to suck it up and say mom, im pregnant, i took the test and its positive. I know i made a mistake but now i need your help.

Answer 17

SLAG... get used to that coz if you are pregnant and having s*x so young you gunna be all used up by 18 and wnt be able to date anyone nice... and if you are pregnant you will miss school to care for your baby... good luck

Answer 18

I'm not sure

maybe start out with Mom and Dad would you be mad if I had s*x? Then wait for an answer then if they say yes or no tell them I had s*x with my boyfriend and I don't know if I'm pregnant though...

then They might listen they might talk to you in private and they might want to talk to your boyfriend but that should help

Good luck...

Answer 19

well it depends on how close of a relationship you have with your parents. Most people dont tell their parents that they are having s*x because its a very uncomfortable situlation to be in. Many parents know well kind of know but wont say anything to you because its uncomfortable to them as well. once you are 100 percent sure that you are pregnant is when you sure give your self some time to thing about what you want to do with the baby, but please dont kill it!!! and then once you know if you want to raise that baby or put it up for a close or open adpotion thats when you tell your parents and whom ever. Honestly you dont want other people opinions affect yours. Good luck!

Answer 20

Yr a r****d for doing tthat

Answer 21

Well if your pregnant they are going to find out sooner than later, you can't hide it for too long.  As much as it sucks honesty is probably the only answer.  Just talk to your mother/father whoever you are closer with and know will take it better.  Make it short but sweet the less you say the better.  Just say I wanted to have s*x, I did and I messed up and think I might be pregnant that way you can discuss all your options earlier than later. good luck and be safe next time!

Answer 22

well if u r having s*x at 13  then u should be using protection. what is up with all this young kids asking questions about how to tell their parents that they r prego, had s*x, has std and what do do about their pregnancy? you guys need to go play with dolls or something instead of being out there having s*x. and if u r having s*x, do it responsibly!!!

Answer 23

I would say they figured you are too young to even be talking about s*x which you are. I know you already know all about the birds and the bees...

My parents did not tell me about it but did that make me think they did not care? No did that make me run out and have s*x when i was that young? No way!

What do you think it proves to have s*x and get pregnant at the age of 13?

Are you wanting attention from your parents if so this is not the way to go about it.

I would tell your parents that you think you are pregnant so they can take you to the doctor so if you aren't maybe they will put you on birth control or something. You are not hurting no one but yourself.

Answer 24

your only a baby your self just tell them ill say a prayer your not pregnant.

Answer 25

Every parent cares.  Even if they don't show it.

Answer 26

You dont have to tell your parents your having s*x... I dont know anyone who has. If your pregnant, thats a different matter and you will need to tell them ASAP after its confirmed. If your not worried, dont tell them anything and just be more careful next time.