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How do i tell my straight guy friend that i am g*y?

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we have been hanging out for like a long time now and he is clueless about me being g*y. i am not attracted to him physically or sexually, but i do want to keep my friendship with him. what do i do?

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  1. Simply DO NOT tell him.


  2. i think that if he s really a true friend, he won't judge u... he will be there for u regardless...

    if ur afraid of how he might react, ask him how does he feel about g*y people... or maybe u could ask him how does he feel bout g*y marriage, u could tell him u read in the paper something about g*y marriage, and u were just wondering how he felt about it...

    and then if he says something negatively about g*y people u could ask him if he's a homophobic.. if he is... that would be ur choice whether to keep a friendship with him, knowing he wouldn't accept u the way u r.. or to keep quite and keep being friends, even when u know he wouldn't accept u were he to know the truth -which would be pretty much a hypocritical kinda friendship...

    i would personally tell him either way... if he is overly homophobic, he isn't really a true friend.. he doesn't value people for who they are... and he doesn't deserve having friends that appreciate him for who he is...

  3. A true friend wouldn't care what you do with your p***s : )

  4. Just tell him (privately) like you told us, that your not attracted to him "physically or sexually" but you "value the friendship" and feel comfortable enough expressing this to him. If he is OK with it, you should have no problems. But if not, you should still have no problems - he wasn't even a true friend to begin with so who needs him?

  5. Im g*y

    Just dont tell him

    Its not that important

    When you dont have to think twice about telling someone

    then u are ready

  6. it will be awkward forever if you tell him. even if he's ok with it. the only way it wouldn't be awkward when you told him is if he was g*y too.

  7. If he is a true friend, you should be able to just tell him.  xox

  8. If he's truly your friend, he will consider your feelings. Do you know how he feels about g*y people? If he has a negative attitude towards g*y persons, you will have to figure out a way to tell him gradually. In th end, I think it's best to tell him, but at your own pace. As I said, if he's your friend, he will think about what you're going through, how hard it may be to tell you and all of that. You could say something like, "You and I have been friends for a long time and I'm glad that we are. Because I consider you my friend, I want to share something with you, but I don't want you to freak because it's really nothing to freak out about. I just want to let you know that I am g*y. Have always been. And, no, I'm not telling you because I like you. We're just friends and I don't want that to change. I just wanted to be myself with you, and I have been. You just didn't know until now". Something like that (smile). Good luck and God bless.

  9. if he was he friend he would be fine with it

    listen to the song "if you were g*y" by avenue Q

  10. Well I'm sure you're a good judge of character.  Is he open-minded?  Or is he a hateful religious fanatic?  Either way, a true friend would keep the friendship going.  You should tell him.  That way, you'll learn what type of friend you have.  A classy one or one who needs to get lost.

  11. well if it was me as ur friend and you told me i wouldn't care, yeah i think you should just tell him  

  12. If he's a true friend, he'll except you for you. You just have to take the risk.

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