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Question

so me and my friend said wed go over to l.a in america.when we finished our leaving cert.well both be 18 and a half.and we were going to go for 4 weeks. we are both 14 now.and i forgot that the legal age to drink over there is 21 and where i am its 18. so I'm a new 18 year old and after finishing my leaving cert id want to celebrate it.in a place where i can drink.as i am able to drink were i am from(ireland)

so what will i do how will i tell her that i don't want to go to america and that i want to go somewhere where it is legal to drink?

Answer 1

Just come right out and tell the honest truth! Get up the courage and do it. Good luck and I know you can do this.

Answer 2

Just tell her you cant do it because its illegal, and if she&#039;s mad that means she&#039;s not a real friend, if she was..she wouldn&#039;t want you to break the law!!!

Answer 3

I wouldn&#039;t worry about it right now... you have four years...

Answer 4

What are you trying to say? ...

Answer 5

don&#039;t drink, it will be the beginning of the end.

Answer 6

u can still drink in america. just keep ur shiiittt on the dl.

Answer 7

go to canada its not as far the legal drinking age is 18  

Answer 8

No because that is the dumbest thing. You want to pick alcohol over her.

Answer 9

just cos it isnt legal to drink dusnt mean that you cant

Answer 10

All of that just to go someplace you can drink?? Seems a bit... much in my opinion. Drinking isn&#039;t a big deal, nothing special.

Plus if you have 4 years... don&#039;t worry about it.. a lot can happen in that time.  

Answer 11

I don&#039;t understand your question, sorry. =[

Answer 12

you got to wait a few years...don&#039;t listen to the guy above me its best not to involve yourself in illegal activities don&#039;t cha think?

Answer 13

Your placing too much enthuses on the drinking than on

the holiday !  Why don&#039;t you take out a holiday brochure

and see what else there is to do and going on where your

friend and you originally planned to go ? .... If your time is

spent , looking around , finding places to see and so on

shopping.  

Why do you want to drink?  It is not feminine

in most parts of the world for women to go around drinking

can be considered vulgar !   And especially when anyone

can see that the drinking is being done by two very young

ladies.  Most decent guys would run miles from you, and

that means !!! just want kind of guys would be the ones who

stayed ?

Maybe you guys could try and check out a few European Country&#039;s.

Answer 14

say this...  

&quot;I wanna get f up &amp;i can&#039;t if i go to the US so i&#039;m going somewhere else&quot;  

but honestly if your 14 right now you&#039;ll probably change your mind until then anyway if not more then once so just enjoy life right now and worry about it when your old enough  

Answer 15

Just tell her that in America you can&#039;t drink until you are 21... see what she says...

she might already realize that and have ideas of what you can do....

Mexico is not far from LA and they have an 18 legal drinking age (actually its probably &quot;if you can walk and talk&quot; drinking age).  

She might think the same as you do, and you can discuss alternate plans

Answer 16

just tell her the truth..its better 2 tell her rite away! then wait nd run away from this.. she shouldnt get mad cuz ur telllin her now nd cuz it is illigal over here..nd if she gets mad then just tell her all da stuff that could happin over here..lyk getin a DUI nd alllllll that!

soooo hope this helped nd hope u hav fun wutever u shoose 2 do!

Answer 17

gotta love the Irish

Answer 18

Even though it&#039;s not legal, doesn&#039;t mean you can&#039;t...just get a fake ID...or have someone else buy the beer for you.

Answer 19

Just the same as you&#039;ve told it here. Although, it seems rather silly to throw away a huge opportunity to see the world and have new experiences because you won&#039;t legally be able to buy alcohol.

Answer 20

Tell her America sucks total balls. We&#039;re a bunch of stuck up prudes. You don&#039;t want to be around us!