How do i train my horse? Or help him

Question

I got my horse about 2 months ago, and in the begining everything was good, but as things have been progressing i have been tryin more things with him, like geting him to canter or gallop, which he will not do, and trying to get him to go home is horrid, he tosses his head and goes in circles and wants to go where he wants to, and so i have to get off and lead him away from "his area" that he wants to go to and then when i try to get back on he goes in circles, and tries to walk away, and when i try to get back on the saddle falls sideways and i get so frustrated i end up hitting his rump, and shoutin ho so he will stop, and it doesnt even affect him , but hes a sweetheart when were in the pasture together, he chases me around and nudges me walks right beside me so if anyone could give anytips that would be great thanks!

Answer 1

You need to step up and show him who's boss or get a trainer that can. Horses are worthless and dangerous if they are spoiled. You are doing no favors by leading him, and playcating him.

If you can't/won't do it then don't ruin a good horse. Get a trainer.  

Answer 2

he sounds like he is getting a little bit spoiled it is good to smack him and show him whose boss dont be afraid of him!

Answer 3

Don't let your horse within 2 feet of you unless you pull him towards you.

Otherwise, kick the **** out of the little monster you created. No biting, no pulling, if you say stand, make him stand in one spot, when he moves, go back to the spot. He's acting like a 3 year old kid.  

Answer 4

You need to take him to a trainer and get lessons. It sounds like you don't know what you are doing or how to ride very well. A good trainer should be able to help you get over his problems and some lessons will teach you how to ride better.  

Answer 5

hi i break and educate horse and to start with you have to show him who is boss with him not standing still try to get a hession bag from your local feed store and fill it with sand when you do this put it in your arena or paddock were you usually work or ride him make shaw it is not close to fences or any thing that may hurt the horse ok once you have filled your bag with sand get a old car tyre tube  and a horse lead clip then tie the tube to the bag and make shaw that it is done firmly and wont undo then put the clip on the end of it and thats done ok now tie your horse up to the sand bag once you have done that leave him there for half an hour so he learns that he is tied up to it if you can try to get him to pull back so he learns that it is there the hole idea is they can move the bag but it is realy heavy so it will tire him out realy quik if he pulls back ok now you have done all that you start to hop on and off him while he is tied to the bag and if he still walks in circles then move the bag next to a fence and do it there if you can try moving the bag in different places and so he will learn to stand there while you get on him this should work for you and with the other things when he plays up do not get off that is teaching him he can win try using a crop or wip when you ride him all the time and give him a couple of wacks when he starts playing up if you are to nervouse to do these things you are probly better just taking him to a breaker and trainer to educate him for you i hope i was some help all the best leah

Answer 6

Get a horse trainer.

Thats what i did for my horse and it worked!

Answer 7

Wow. Your horse completely owns you. You've got to get his respect before he hurts you. Please tighten your girth well especially before riding a horse that's acting up like that.

Right now, he's the boss. You need a promotion. Some things I can think of that may help:

1)Make sure you are being clear on your intentions when you ask for the faster gaits. Stay out of his mouth, and give him good leg cues. If he still won't go, give him a better reason. Like a crop. Or spurs. Or both. Be responsible when you use them. Don't beat your horse with the crop. I don't like anything that even resembles sharp points on spurs. My rowels are rounded, and I only use them when I really need to. Most of the time they stay in the tack room. Do not kick him hard with spurs on. If you haven't ever ridden with spurs, get somebody to show you how to use them first.

2)When he starts acting up, I can very nearly see how frustrated you are by the way you're writing. Keep your cool. If both of you are losing it, no good will come of it. Watch him at all times. What's he trying to tell you? Is he just being stubborn, or is he scared, or what?

3)There are a couple things you can do when he's balking like that. Back him up for a while. Spin him for a while. Something you can make him do that he doesn't like or enjoy much. I'd bet that after the first time or two that he had to back all the way home, he'll figure out you aren't happy with him, and if he goes along with you his legs won't be so sore. Don't get off. Stay on him and make him go where you want to go. Make it hard to do what he wants and easy to do what you want. One thing I do if a horse keeps pulling in one direction is to resist and add pressure away from there. If they keep it up, I turn them in that direction, which they're all too willing to do, but turn them all the way around and right back into where I want to go. If they keep that up, I'll spin them in that direction until they get tired of looking that way.

4)His chasing you and nudging you in the pasture is his way of telling you he's the boss. I know it seems fun and cute, but to a horse, it's establishing a pecking order. You aren't at the top. That means he gets to decide what the two of you do. Do all those things back to him and you will change his mind about where he is in the herd. Never let him do those things to you again. Shoo him around, stomp your feet, all the aggressive things you see horses do to each other. When he tries it on you, correct him immediately and firmly.

I wish you the best of luck in getting your place back. You'll enjoy your horse a whole lot more when you do. Remember to take it easy and never lose your cool. You're in charge and the responsible one.

Answer 8

Get someone with experience to give you help.  You can probably find a community group that provides structure to the lives of disadvantaged young people by teaching them about horses; you may be able to arrange a deal where one of them trades you horse training for an extra chance to ride.  Or you could pay the person, or pay a professional.  Don't try doing it by yourself.

Make sure it's hands-on help that you get, though.  You want to learn enough that if you ever find yourself in this situation again, you'll be able to do most or all of it yourself.

Answer 9

try not to get off of him when he is having a fit.   It just shows him hes right.   If hes acting up, make him stand dead still.  If he keeps moving, back him up a few steps and try it again.  When he stands still for atleast 3 seconds praise him, and ask him to walk.  if he does it again, keep doing this!    

If hes walking away at mount, spend a whole day of riding..  mount up, and if he moves even a little, get off back him up to his innitial spot and do it again.   when he finally stands still make it a huge deal.. let him know he did something awesome.   pat him, say good boy in a happy voice.  

goodluck :)

Answer 10

He is bullying you. Firmly show him you are the boss. Don't be mean or abusive but be firm and direct. You need to get his attention when he does not want to listen. When he fully respects you he will listen to you.

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