How do i trust anyone ever again??

Question

how do i trust anyone ever again my ex broke my heart and made me feel like i could never love nor trust another guy in this world and now i have a guy who loves me and trust me but i don't know how to trust him my ex cheated and lied to me he crushed me i made him my every ting but anyway how do i let the one guy who loves me for who i am and trusts me with his heart how do i trust him and let him have the key to my heart ...??

Signed TEEDA

Answer 1

Ugh, common questions get common answers.  You just need time.  Over time your wounds will heal.  Over time he will earn your trust.  Over time you will fall in love again.  

Answer 2

Dear TEEDA,

(beautiful name)

I was dead & still not whole (it's hard to recover), but it is the time who do everything for us IF we really LISTEN TO our being, yeah, our entirely being & not only to our soul.

As long as you keep any fear, bad feeling or uncertainty in your soul, the longer the time, the deeper the illness of your BODY. I've got ill, very ill. Now I'm almost perfect. The healing is right in our self.

All we need is our INNER PEACE, which we cannot acquire with the help of someone else, but by your self.

LOVE is YOU. Love is in your whole soul, and body, and expands much further, beyond our own body.

When you, your significant other and any of your friends and relatives will understand & feel this, there shall be no resentments into your relationships; you do start working at acceptance within yourself. YOU must be dependent of no one, and feel yourself fulfilled by only your self. The rest we may have in our life it's just a gift we must be happy for and cherish for the moments - children, friends, exceptional lover.

LOVE is in yourself, in loneliness as well, or wherever you may be. Just try to open your eyes every single moment to see the world, people, nature, your self, your lover ... and feel through them & through you beyond the material. Feel the Real Love! Be confident and feel through your loved one. You'll see how easy is to feel him, any of his inner experience. He feels you too - he should. He shall feel your fears, and this way he shall not can give you back the whole feeling you need so much and you are looking for.

Real Love you are looking for is like a huge ball in which you & your loved one must feel you are part of.

You must need no one else but your inner peace through love - universal love - for any you do in your life. If your loved one feels this way (?) you may be helped to get there, at a real trust in YOU, and in anybody else without having real, physical need of them.

But this is beyond the animal desire, which is short and unfulfilling. For this reason all the men, most of them, are looking further, & further, & further and shall find ... NOTHING to ever be lasting or worthy. Cause what they get, it's nothing but a dried empty shape. The act is the SAME, no difference.

READ & live David Deida's books, together with your significant one. You look like being his namesake!

Hope for you to be lucky!

Hug.

Answer 3

if your current beau is treating you poorly.....then, you shouldnt give up that key.  if he's being up front with you about all things and treating you kindly then...well, it's a risk.  good luck

Answer 4

If you really WANT it to happen, it will happen, in time. I have the same problem myself, but hopefully in time, mine too will end, and I will trust again. Good Luck, to both of us!

Answer 5

it sucks, you never really know...wished I had a better answer...