How do know that a relationship or marriage is really over?

Question

How do know that a relationship or marriage is really over?

Answer 1

no more communication, not spending any time together, leading completely separate lives, sleeping in separate rooms.

Answer 2

from your question I think you already know.

Answer 3

when the two of you just dont care what the other one is doing when there is nothing to say to each other  

Answer 4

The life gone out of the relationship.  There's no energy to keep it together.  You don't care to keep it going.  You have s*x with other people and your ex partner is not on your mind at all.  You don't try anymore.

Answer 5

a pretty good bet is when you have to come on here and ask that question. Its either awful close or in deep trouble

Answer 6

~~When you can't stand the thought of seeing the person, just the thought of them makes you ill, when you wish they would just die, when you have to cheat on them~~

Answer 7

Gotta agree with Arthur. When you are asking the question here in this forum, you probably already know the answer.  Your subconscious mind is just not ready to deal with reality.  Try reversing the question to see if it's easier for you to deal with "How do I know that my marriage and/or relationship is still thriving and I'm satisfied?"

Whatever you decide, take it slow and don't make hasty decisions.  The only one who can answer your question is you. Be good to yourself, don't beat yourself up over difficult choices. Try deciding what you want from your relationship?  What will make you feel good about the relationship?  Life is too short to be unhappy, but if you walk away realize it's a tough road alone but you can survive.  If there are children involved it makes it more complicated.  Good luck

Answer 8

When your stomach ties up in knots thinking about spouse!  But be careful, it may be the situation you are going through, think through it, is it the circumstances or your spouse.  

Answer 9

when he doesn't call you any more and/or pack all his stuff up.

Answer 10

When he's moving his stuff out.

Answer 11

One clue is when the other cheats on you.

Answer 12

when you just don't care what would happen to your spouse or home.

Answer 13

When both communicate through channels unknow to each other....when the spoken words hardly carry the meaning....And yes, when "Love you" is just a "phrase"...

Answer 14

u know its over when they begin cheating,u know you mean nothing to them anymore.its over when they find fault, name call and pick fights. u know its over when they disrespect u in front of others.