How do most women understand this statement?

Question

"I always attract losers"

If I were to make this comment, it would SOLELY mean the majority of men who APPROACH me...not the men that I would EVER accompany on even one date...I find it insulting for these types to just approach...

...but it seems like others say it by the men they have been in relationships with...which led to this conclusion.

So am I basically really sensitive that these men are even APPROACHING?

Answer 1

thtss sooo grosss....i really cant get u tht well...itzz nt alwayzz losers...there seems to b sme problm

Answer 2

the term generally means you seek them out and entice them because their failings appeal to you in some way.

Answer 3

Well, we're all just lucky to share this cyberspace with you aren't we.  You are worthy beyond all our wildest imaginations.  In fact, you're too worthy to demean yourself by being around human beings.  Why drag yourself down like that?  Go find yourself a nice cave somewhere, and crawl into it.  Don't insult yourself by being seen by another human being, especially a male one, ever again.

Answer 4

It must be difficult to be a woman and have undesirable men approach you.  Scary and I can't even imagine what you go thru in one day.  Imagine if the sexes could spend

a week or more changing roles...to see how the other s*x felt/went thru?

Answer 5

I have a female friend who frequently utters that phrase, and to some extent it's true. However, she appears to be attracted to losers, so it's no wonder that she attracts them in return.

If any women truly attracts losers, there's no law that says she has to date them. She is the one who allows the losers into her life.

Answer 6

I find that the women who usually make that statement have poor communication in relationships and there's a degree of jealousy, snooping or even cheating.  Whatever the reason the relationships end, they automatically place all blame on their ex instead of recognizing and acknowledging their own share of blame.

Answer 7

I'm a man, and frankly, such a statement typifies a highly self-absorbed individual in need of psychiatric attention.

Answer 8

It depends on what you mean by "loser," but i definately know what you mean. I feel really unflattered when "losers" find me attractive or try to hit on me. I get digusted with them and myself.  

Answer 9

Again darlin', if every man you attract is a "loser" then the issue is you.

Either your perception is way off, or you don't have  good enough qualitities to attract nice men.  Either way, you need to get some help, girl.

Answer 10

What is the definition of a loser?  

Answer 11

Give the 10 points to the doggie and lets move on the the next question.

Answer 12

Your statement seems to be misunderstood. I understand it to mean that the men who approach you don't meet your standards therefore they aren't suitable as potential mates. Don't settle for less or lower your standards because what you can tolerate you can't change. No one knows your worth better than you so seek the best and it'll come.