How do ppl feel after they talked about ?

Question

other ppl in a nasty way, and then have to be around that person. I notice it's a lot of gossiping at my job. I am the one that really don't(do that ignorant stuff), but now ppl come back telling me this and that about other ppl or make lil comments.

it's seem like they want me to say something so they can go back and tell(at least that's what I think) anyway.

do they know or feel any regret or remorse when they are in situations like that. is it like some secret they share(about the certain person) and they feel what???

Me, personally I know how to hold conversation w/out gossiping about other ppl with so much entertainment in the world why talk about someone that work at the same job as you?? why do ppl do it, couldn't they share their thoughts withsomeone that's not at the job.

Answer 1

Just stay as neutral as possible, in your comments and reactions.  Avoid the worst gossipers if you can, and if you can't, just smile and say something like, "Oh, well...."  Since it's at work, you can probably easily find an excuse to get away from them, some little "job" that needs to be done.

There will always be small-minded people like them wherever you go, so just look for the better quality people and make friends with them.

Answer 2

omg I'm the same i don't like talking about other ppl behind there back and i have ppl come back to me talking about them what i do is just nod my head and ignore them BUT if they ever say something that's totally out of order like starting rumours im not saying the gossipping out of order its just if they start rumours on being really bitchy stand up for you're self i hope this info help it gets me by and at the same time i havent got ppl walking all over me :) bye bye xox