How do they cope with break up??

Question

Just curious about how does a Virgo male/female cope with a break up? This friend of mine just told me that he {again} break up with his girlfriend but he said this time it time it is definitely. But does a female Virgo cope differently with a break up then a Virgo male? Coz his girlfriend is a Virgo too.

Answer 1

It's very hard to win back the heart of a Virgo. Face it--you've just got too many things wrong with you (at least to the Virgo!).

An appeal to their guilt side is probably your best move. Virgos hate to feel guilty, it means they did something in error. To error to a Virgo represents an area in their life that hasn't been explored and over-explored to the point of precise shrewdness! To regain a Virgo back in your life show them how absolutely helpless you are without their expertise, intelligence, and keen wit. The Virgo is just so practical and useful to have around. You should be devastated!

Can't be devastated? Then be a dirty-dog and make them jealous. Date again and watch your ex-Virgo squirm in pain. They can't stand being less than the 'perfect -one' in your eyes. Oh, the pain, the pain those poor Virgos can cause upon themselves. They are extremely over-analytical, and hate thinking that there was something they 'missed'. How could they possibly have overlooked any detail?

Although somewhat overly compassionate and empathetic, Virgos have a way of dismissing their own emotions. They may appear cold, distant, heartless, shrewd, callous, and apathetic to you and your grief. Virgos can, indeed, feel other's pain, unless they are the cause of it! All in all, even the ex of a Virgo should take much self-pride. Afterall, if the pickiest person on Earth picked you as a mate you must be as near to perfect as humanly possible.

The Virgo as yourself: Stop analyzing and over-analyzing every detail of your breakup. The how's, the why's, the what-if's. As a Virgo you probably are taking your breakup way too hard. You probably have explored every channel of the relationship and the breakup, right down to recalling conversation (arguments) word-for-word, and analyzing every  one of those words that were uttered! Not all breakups make sense--some times people just aren't right for each other! Unfortunately, chances are your ex was exactly what you wanted in a mate. Virgos are very picky with what they 'bring into their life', and exacting on the quality of their mate -- if your ex was the one you chose, opting above all others, then no doubt they were perfect for you. This detail may make you cling longer to the relationship than is healthy. You just know there will never be another so perfect for you.

As a Virgo, you must be careful of how you allow your grief to manifest. Virgos tend to take everything to 'health'. Watch your diet, your eating and your sleeping habits. Keep up with your exercise regimen and add a nice long walk, or jog, to your daily 'to-do' list. Stay away from vices!

Regaining your ex means refocusing your thoughts. Your mind can go into maximum overdrive during a breakup. Beware! You could subconsciously sabotage all your hard work by being way too critical with your ex. Pointing out their faults, flaws, and short-comings is not your job. Displaying insecurities and jealousy is quite common with you, although you will never admit to this. Patience and relaxation is the key here. Do not overwork your brain! Instead stop and smell the roses, feel the breeze on your face, see the colors of the sunset.

Stop worrying! You will be okay--no matter what!

You were born to help others, so this is an excellent time to help them. It will take your over-active mind off of your breakup and make you feel useful, valuable, and loved. Something you crave right about now.

Answer 2

If you want to generalize on the sign, my experiences with them if they don't want to break up they will find any way to stay in the person's life, and can be manipulative. that I noticed with this sign, but your friends maybe total opposite. Then again so are people in general different from each other.  

Answer 3

Yes.That is an easy answer.Everyone does different.Honestly I am a true believer in Horoscopes and two of one kind do not mix.I guess that is why their relationships don't last that long.My parents were both Leos.That didn't work out!

Answer 4

Virgo men have a hard time dealing with breakups. Because they set very high standards for themselves . Its Like they compete with themselves. They have to be perfect and they have a fear of failure. I dated a Virgo 7 years ago . It took him 6 years to get over it. And we didnt stay together too long(only 7 months) He would always call and cry and beg and tell me that he would chang. He didnt cheat on me or anything. He just got on my nerves because he was weird. Seet guy; but weird. So when they're involved in a break up, its like they didnt do a "good job" Everything is like a job to them. And Life is lke a promotion or a demotion. The Females are different. They seem to move on a lot easier.

Answer 5

well the virgo male i know kept going back to his gf asking for her to take him back. He was jealous and didnt want her around anyone else. He was very hurt by her..

Answer 6

The virgo male that I know, gets real emotional about break-ups. He  writes a poem about it, then gets over it. Virgos dont really dwell.  They are practical people. Women on the otherhand, are a little more emotional than the men. My female virgo friend gets upset about things easily, but she also doesnt dwell. Virgos all around are emotionally intelligent.