How do u deal with a cheating husband?

Question

How do u deal with a cheating husband?

Answer 1

First of all, dont sleep with him. He could give you diseases. Get your tested for any diseases too.

How do you know he is cheating?

From yahoo, it looks like you live in India, then, there is no way. I have heard divorce can get hard. If u have the guts and support of your parents and your family, leave him.

According to my Indian coworkers, there is a fashion going around in India to sleep around among married couples, There is spouse swapping too. so, Either you join him, Ms Lakshmi or you leave him.

How else are u going to help yourself.

Just dump him. Get yourself a job and live by yourself.  

Answer 2

if u love him, try to make things work

buh remmeber tha saying: once a cheater, awlasy a cheater

and its not just a saying, its true

u shud deserve more than a man cheating on u

gluck

Answer 3

with walking papers, he broke the deal...

Answer 4

I don't.... I let my attorney deal with him....smiling :)

Answer 5

Small caliber pistol  or  a baseball bat or you can really hurt him , get a lawyer!

Answer 6

You don't, if you have positive proof that he cheated, get a lawyer and make him pay.

Answer 7

Honey being a sister of six brothers, four cheaters it's hard to say. Two of my four sister in laws divorced them and two stayed. One of the ones that stayed died several years ago and it broke my brother's heart. After all the years that he had cheated on her it came home to him the last week she lived. He lived fourteen years after she passed and I don't think he ever had a happy moment. The question is yours Honey. Do you love him enough to stay knowing what you do to keep your home together? If you can't get over it  you need to leave now. Does his pros outweigh his cons? Good luck  and I'll be praying for you  Sweetie!!!!!!!

Answer 8

divorce papers

Answer 9

He's not cheating, he's going to a s*x therapist.  She is helping him through some issues so that he can be a better lover for you.

Answer 10

Tough question. Sadly, it is one that many women have to ask themselves. Basically you need to take a look at the situation and decide whether the relationship is worth saving. Was it just a one-time mistake that he came clean about and is desperately sorry for? Or, did he sneak around for a long time? Will you be able to trust him again?

If you are going to try and work it out, you need to be open and honest with each other about expectations and concerns. Perhaps a family counselor will help.

If you are going to divorce him, get the best attorney you can, and take him for all he is worth :)

A fabulous book to help you make decisions and deal with a cheating spouse is called "After the Affair" - check it out at any major bookstore or online. http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksea...

Good luck to you in whatever you decide to do.

Answer 11

Change the locks on the door and leave his clothes at the curb.

Answer 12

Depends if you want to keep him and can forgive him. Talk to him, give him an ultimatum, give him one more chance to go straight & if he fails get shot of him. Cheaters CAN reform, but they are few in number.

Answer 13

Slap him with a divorce and show him what you think of his cheating ***.