How do u feel about a woman with more than 1 "baby daddy"?

Question

would u say she is a w***e ...what do u think ....do her kids have all doferent last names..how do u feel a bout these women

Answer 1

I feel worse about older women who have no children at all - what do they do, get abortions? - The women with no children seem to be the ones who are more "free".  I am no one to judge though.

Answer 2

creative : )

Answer 3

Yeppers all whores. Should all be fixed like the stray cats they are. Most of them are using our tax dollars to pay for their whoring.  

Answer 4

Yea their whores and probably have had a lot of std's

Answer 5

As far as I am concerned if you have one baby daddy it is one baby daddy too much.  Same goes for those that marry, have a kid, divorce, marry, have a kid divorce (or not).  We are suppose to be smarter than animals.

Pick one decent man, marry, have one or two kids and be happy.  What is so difficult about that?

Answer 6

don't sleep with her because you will be having a kid next.  

Answer 7

That she is perhaps a little easy or likes to have too much fun.

BTW-Not all women can have children, my husband and I have struggled with infertility for the past three years due to my uterus.  

Answer 8

That depends.  A bunch of kids and a bunch of different daddies, and she never married any of them?  w***e.  Tramp. s**t.  Take your pick.  

Children need a mother and a father.  A woman who is so busy s******g that she has a new baby with a different daddy every couple of years, is a woman who isn't a mother.  And a woman who is irresponsible enough to have babies she can't afford (and women like this can almost NEVER afford the kids they have) don't have any business sleeping around.

Married, had kids, divorced, remarried, had more kids?  No big deal.  Same if she was widowed.  

Answer 9

It depends, if she was married and had children then got divorced and married again and had children, I think that's ok. If it's a woman who has 5 kids and 5 different fathers, I'd feel like I was on the Jerry Springer show.

Answer 10

Not the brightest. It's 2008-- birth control options are plentiful and cheap.

Answer 11

well think about it...most men would rather be with a women with no children then one that has been prego with 2 men...that women is now used goods...kins like a car way tooo many miles not the best deal in the lot  

Answer 12

That doesn't make them whores It just means that she was never carefull and if I don't wnat to be daddy of her next kid I have to be carefull. I would totally date and marry a woman like I would even give my last name to her kids if she wanted to. She made wrong choices (dating wrong men), we all make bad choices, some people learn some never learn. But that does not mean that she does not deserve respect and shouldn't be treated as a lady.    

Answer 13

I think it is terrible. The only way I can say okay to that is if the woman was dating/married the guy and he died  and she moved on with her life but to keep having them from different men is disgusting. Or to even have one with one guy..have another with a different guy and then go back to the first guy to have his kid again..disgusting.  

Answer 14

INSECURE, LOW SELF ESTEEM, VERY VERY SELFISH!!!!!!! Just thinks of herself getting pleased.

must have mental issues.  That shows no stability in the family.

Answer 15

They are indecisive? Lol!

Answer 16

I wouldn't call her a w***e maybe irresponsible.  It all depends on the situation.  I think if she has 3 kids or more by three different Fathers she has her hands full and probably is collecting welfare.  I do think if you have more then one father for 3 babies and you live off of the welfare system then they should make that woman get her tubes tide.  We have so many birth control methods out there really there is no excuse.  If a woman slept with 50 guys but never got pregnant and another woman slept with five guys but was irresponsible and got pregnant by 3 of them.  I would concider the lady that had 50 a tramp but the other is just plain dumb.

Answer 17

There could be many variables here . First I would say ...she fell in love twice   Or thought it was love .. Next I would say ...she likes s*x . ha ha ha !!! Next I'd say ... Could be she was young and dumb or wanted children or was irresponsible or just b/c. One thing is  for sure ...the child has a purpose in this life and so did the father . You cannot judge a woman by the amount of children she has or the relationships she endures . Sometimes sperm donars do not seem to be very good Dads and some men make horrible husbands . Each situation can be different as each relationship has a beginning and a end . Maybe this woman never found the decency in the  childs father  she thought she had to be good enough to  stay for life . So you see be careful what you judge you could  have found a woman who has been around the world and back .  You may have found a woman who seems  to be irresponsible . You may have found a woman  who  holds her childrens lives  above her own or you could have found a woman who chooses  sexual encounters  as a joy ride on this earth . Reguardless of the situations at hand , she is blessed and that speaks for itself . The strength it takes to raise a child commands respect anyday!. Ask yourself this . Would you love your mom any less if you had many dads and  many siblings to make your life interesting ?

Answer 18

I think they are  still lookin for Mr. Right

Answer 19

I would have to say that some are whores that do sleep around and have STDs and not care about their kids but not all. My sister in law has 2 boys by 2 different guys but she isnt a w***e at all, both of her ex-husbands started to be abusive and one an alcoholic and drug addict. I think that just because a woman has more then one "baby daddy" doesnt mean she is trashy, just took time to find a good guy.

Answer 20

i think dating a woman with kids is sexxy. its just something about how strong she is

Answer 21

I wouldn't say a "w***e" but not wise. There are certain circumstances which could cause this, remarriage, being young and naive. People make mistakes like everyone else, but if all your kids have different fathers, you probably weren't making the right decisions. I am sure people like that aren't proud of themselves, especially when people call them whores and s***s, but I believe everyone can change and realize the "wrongs" they done, including sleeping around w/out protection.....

Answer 22

I would assume she hasn't been educated on how to prevent pregnancy.

Answer 23

It really depends I guess. If she IS a w***e than yeah.. I'd think she's a w***e... but I could only know that if I actually knew her-- so if I just became acquainted with some who happened to have children by different fathers I wouldn't judge right off the bat, but I'd def be curious.

ALSO-- Many people are quick to call names AND place all of the blame on the mothers. I'm sorry but the last time I checked- it takes two..

BTW.. for the poster who assumed anyone single with 3 children is probably on welfare you're a tart.

Last but not least, I'm 25yrs old, I have 3 children (daughters) and they all have different bio dads. I am certainly not a w***e. Happily married actually going on 6 years together. Not on welfare~ NEVER have been. I worked my *** off from the time I was 15 holding down a job and finishing school.

My oldest is 9, born when I was 16- her sperm donor decided "he wasn't ready" to be a dad (like i was!?) and walked away, haven't seen or heard from him since. She has my last name

My middle daughter- shes 7- unfortunately her dad died shortly after she was even born..Hmm- at this point I'm 18, planning to get married start my life and then BAM that doesn't happen. She has my last name as well

My youngest daughter- she's 3- is my husbands biological child and the only DADDY all 3 of them know.  Her last name is mine and his together.

So technically they all have the same "dad" just different donors.. and to be honest I don't give a flying fu*k what others think because they can think and assume all they want, but they have NO clue whats real.

I certainly don't loose sleep over pathetic and judgmental comments, I'm stronger than that, been threw alot and it'll take a h**l of lot more than someones opinion to break me.. :P

I just feel bad for the women who aren't as strong as me because some of these answers I've read are cruel and probably cut some women to the bone.. A lot of the time the men ditch these moms and leave them with these kids.. thats not there fault yet they are the ones judged for it.. sad really sad :(

Answer 24

Disgusted actually. Poor kids.  

Answer 25

I don't judge. Who I am I to judge? I don't know the womans situation! She could have been married and had a child or 2 or 3 and then her hubby dies...then later on she remarries and has another child or 2...Or maybe she had a child with her first husband and the husband leaves her stranded...then she remarries later on and has more kids. I mean the possibilities are endless, who are we to judge anyway?

Who are you to judge the life i live?

I know I am not perfect, I don't live to be.

But before you start pointing fingers, make

sure YOUR hands are clean.

- Bob Marely

Answer 26

I feel that they probably should have at least been smart enough to use contraception.  

Probably are too immature and irresponsible and probably should have been sterilized before being released into the world.

And most definitely should have gotten a few abortions.

There are a few terms that could be used to describe these women, but eh, i dont want to offend any 80 year old grandmothers today.  Ask again tomorrow.

Answer 27

I may be initially inclined to think she is a bit 'easy' or something, but i would also know that is an unfair thing to think- judging somebody like that. My best friend has had 4 children by 2 different fathers.  People make mistakes and if the father is rubbish then dont stay with him! I think it would depend more on how you treat your children and live your life (like do you bring man after man to live in the house and affect your kids a lot or are you responsible and do your dating privatly etc) on the whole, rather than how many dads the family has...nobody has a perfect life

Answer 28

I would say it is not our place to judge anyone whether they have one baby daddy or twenty. We never know what a person has been through in their life that contributed to their situation. I just wonder how many of the responses you have gotten so far are from people who are stereotypical a$$holes who have no compassion for anyone. People make mistakes and not everyone in the world is quick to visit a clinic.  How about giving those mothers a thumbs up who have their children and do all they can to support them without the aid of the government or any other handouts.  I guess some people are just too shallow to believe there are actually people who learn from their mistakes and can pick themselves up in the face of adversity and take care of their business regardless of what ignorant people around them may think.  I understand that being responsible is not a virtue for all these women but I think it is wrong to categorize.

Answer 29

I know several well educated women with good jobs that have several kids with different daddy's and they are  not whores or s***s etc. They just chose poor partners to have children with, but were smart and strong enough to walk away from the losers. I would much rather they give those so called men the boot instead of trying to raise their kids in a dysfunctional environment because they were too worried about what people would say or think.

Answer 30

My best friend divorced and remarried and they added to their family. I love her to death. Her kids are like my own. There's a big difference between that and one woman who has 3 or more children by different fathers. A woman like that needs to stop having babies and learn how to choose better. I feel for the kids.  

Answer 31

Sadly people fall in and out of love, and when in love they produce children. I wouldn't call a woman with one than one baby daddy a w***e. I call her fertile. I myself have 1, but my sisters have more than 1. Sometimes women don't think about the long haul, and ask questions like do I want to have children with this man? If you know he's a good man and will stick around and hold it down great. If not use serious birth control. Because if you get pregnant there's no "oops"  because obviously you wanted it. Some women like to have what we African Americans call "keep a ***** babies" that's when a woman tries to get pregnant in hopes that it will make a man want to settle down. Now I wouldn't call them whores, just dumb as h**l. Hope I could help.