How do u find the line between stalker and passionate?

Question

Hey i like this girl in my school, and shes in my grade but shes like 6 months older. She is kinda/pretty popular and shes no diva in this case. I really like her but she seems like she is a whole level ahead. I get nervous around her and I almost bail every time shes around. Shes cute, funny, athletic, gorgeous and a great artist. I am always trying to stay my distance but miss her when shes not at school. I try and find out a lot about her but I seem kinda stalker-ish to my self. I actually tried to find a way to translate her name into her language (Japanese). I actually wrote her a poem and I am just waiting for the right time. So do i seem like a stalker.

P.S IF SO ANYWAYS TO REDUCE THIS STRONG FEELING I MIGHT HAVE OVER HER

Answer 1

Kind of stalker-ish.

Talk to her, get to know her.. odds are, she's not as great as you think

Answer 2

u like her it so sweet i love guys like that just ask her out that the only way to reduse that feeling but it sound like u really kool and just give her a changes to like you  it will work out and thatr not stalkerish at all if u sleep outside her house and never leave her side that sweetie is stalkerish

hope i help

from

chickie

Answer 3

slightly stalkerish.

if you look closely, you might find something you have in common and could talk about for hours.

get to know her. your infatuated, buddy.  

Answer 4

Im going through somewhat of a similiar situation...

You cant let your nerves and shyness over shadow the fact that you may have a chance with this girl. What you should try doing is converting your "stalkerish" ways into different behavior. Try putting that same energy into working on your confidence. If you can build that up enough you'll get the courage to express your feelings for this girl eventually. For right now though, take it slow, wait it out and see what happens. You'll never know though unless you try.

Answer 5

No you are just shy.  Some girls like poetry, some don't.  I would be careful with the poem right now, it may turn her off.  Thats cool about your learning how to translate her name.  Does she speak the language?  If so, they is your ice breaker.  Learn a few words and ask her if you are speaking the right way.  Go from there.