How do u get a girl to belive u over her best friend?

Question

i got this girl friend and we have known each other for 12 years we both liked each other the whole time but finally started dating well her best friend and her best friends family started telling me that my girl was using me which i didn't believe i got tired of it when i went to the best friends house to work on a car and her dad started telling me that i should get rid of my girl well the best friend called me one day and her mom asked if i was doing what her husband had said. by this time im really fed up with hearing it and just to get them to lay off i say yea and my girl was on 3 way and i didn't know. i tried telling her y i had said it but she didn't want to hear it. then the best friend starts telling my girl that i was the one saying that my girl was using me and that i told the best friend that i could take her upstairs and do whatever i wanted to her which i didn't say any of it so what do i do how do i get my girl to believe me

Answer 1

Bottom line you can't make her believe you. When someone truly cares for you then they will take your word until proven otherwise, usually by them seeing it. She is wanted to be your girlfriend, I think she would take your side and not friends, but that's just the way I feel.