How do u help a friend who wants to kill them selves??

Question

my best friend just went through a major loss of a family member and ever since she hasn't been acting like her self.. my other friend told me that she was talking to her about killing her self and the pain of her heart would go away.. this is scary stuff! i don't know wat i can do to help her..

can u give me some advice?

Answer 1

tell her that she needs help trick her into going into see some help she might get mad at u at the moment but afterwood she will thank you

Answer 2

You seriously need to tell her parents/guardians.  I know you don't want to be a narc, but it could seriously save her life.  Try to get in touch with them when she is not around and you might ask them to keep you anonymous as the source of that news.  I know you and your other friend would love to help her, but this problem is bigger than that, her parents need to know.  But, you guys just be there for her too, try getting her to go out to the movies/ concerts/ bowling/ sleepovers, just have fun and help her get her mind off of it.  But, please tell her parents.

Answer 3

I tihnk she just needs someone to talk to right now.

if she thinks on killing herself tell her not to, it's probably one of the worst things a person can say because there's other people out there w***e are going through more than what she's going through.Think about it,other people live their WHOLE lives and the rest of their lives in poverty and whatever eles is wrong about this world.I've been to some pretty ruff places and it hurts me to see that stuff, yet the people are soo joyful, even though they've been through soo much hardship and lost almost everything. and u never know what can happen later on.When one door opens were too busy starring at it then turning around to see another door is opened.

Just be there for her right now.

Answer 4

look, there are around 6 billion people in the world. 6 billion, thats 6,000,000,000 see that number, thats ALOT!!!! let her kill herself, one less person in the world will not affect anyone in anyway. just let her be, if shes happy dying she can have fun with the devil in h**l

Answer 5

Tell Her.

Talk to her!

Answer 6

well i can tell u wut not to do...do not say leave me alone. do not leave her. do not tell her to stay the **** away from u. (my friend did this to me and it made me want to die even more) so after that..i just pushed everyone away even more...but..just let her no u love her..and ur not going to leave her

Answer 7

Go to her directly. Talk to her about it. Tell a guidance counselor and her parents if she is serious. Don't be afraid to speak up! It could save their lives.

Answer 8

She going through a hard time, give her some positive reasons to live, to go on, her future.. ask her wat her passion is, make her feel better

Hope this helps =D