How do u know when you r ready to become parents?

Question

we r getting married in less then nine months. we both want kids.

Answer 1

...... when you find you can support yourself and the family.

Answer 2

I don't think you're ever truly ready to have kids, because there's no way you can begin to understand the depth of the commitment until your first one is born. But, in general, I would say that you should have gotten past the first year of your marriage and still be stable; be stable financially; have put money back so that one of you can stay at home for a while; and be willing to set aside the partying for family life.

Children are the best, but they're also a lot of work. When you're ready to put them first, go for it.