How do u outwit a bully?

Question

my fremd gets picked on buy this one mean bully. i help him, and stick up for him. but i think he sould learn how to out wil a bully.

if u have any tips i can tell my frend. please awnswrer.

Answer 1

That's a VERY interesting and puzzling question.  some kids are "immune" to harassment and bullying.  I suspect that they are self assured and know who and what they are as a person and so simply shrug off harassing attempts.  Truth to tell, I don't have a clue how that works nor what specific actions divert the poor turkeys who have to bully other people to feel a little bit good about themselves.

Answer 2

Just ingore the bullys "COMMENTS"and agree with what they say.Its sounds crazy but it works.Its no fun 2 bully if they dont get urt by it!

Answer 3

completely ignore the bully-- for your friend

stop defending your friend - for you (you're not helping, you are making the bully more aggravating-- you're provoking him, because whenever you defend your friend, the bully will have more to bully your friend about)

Answer 4

Your friend is shy and scared of the bully. He feels weak and scared. He will learn after a long time to protect himself as he gets older.

Answer 5

Here's what you and your friend need to know about bullys;

- they have a need to be in control

- they have low selfesteem

- they tend to have low impulses

- they pick on people who they feel are smaller and can gain power from

When your friend is being bullied, your friend needs to stay calm and not react (as hard as this may sound), because that is what the bully is feeding of off. If your friend doesn't give the bully what he's looking for he will move on to someone else. Also your friend needs to inform the teacher of what is going on, and can also come up with more suggestions for your friend.

Answer 6

You need to be a little more specific on how he is being bullied so people can give you better adivce.

Answer 7

Have your friend try some of these websites they tell what they should do.

http://www.dontfeedthebully.com/

http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/emotion...

http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Bullies

http://www.parenting.org/archive/flight/...

Answer 8

bullies are normally physical

torture the bullies mind use his problems to hurt him them

and if he goes to hit you them dodge it and keep the verbal abuse coming  doing that should scare him of bullying for life

Answer 9

To outwit a bully you got to so the bully that you dont care what they say and do. You got to not be afraid of a bully. You got to show the bully that your not scared of him or her . A bully will leave you alone if the bully cant hurt you. It works for me all the time