How do u support ur husband. when his dreams seem unrealistic?

Question

How do u support ur husband. when his dreams seem unrealistic?

Answer 1

you try to see where he's coming from and go out on a limb with him. Maybe even ask him how you can help. By getting involved you'll feel more apt to support him. But even if it's something you can't help out with, your support will help him be more successful than without it. So if that's the case fake it as a last resort until you start to feel it's true. =)

Answer 2

It doesn't ever hurt to dream big.

Answer 3

If it is not jeopardizing anything very important to you then you should just let him try. Experience will tell him whether or not his dreams are realistic and if they aren't then he will learn and will not try to do so again. If it jeopardizes something like the financial stability of your family household then perhaps the risk is not worth taking.

Answer 4

You just try lol Whats his dream?  

Answer 5

You should always support your spouse, no matter what. If they have unrealistic dreams they only seem unrealistic because he does not have a plan that you can see. Work with him to achieve his goal. If he wants to be a singer, help him get voice lessons and try to book gigs for him. If he wants to be an artist help him by setting concrete goals every week.

If his dreams seem unachievable then all you have to do it make them achievable by setting small, attainable goals that work towards his dream. If his dream really is unrealistic, then that will become apparent when the two of you find out that there is no way to plan to achieve his goals. On the flip side, you may see how his unrealistic dream is really achievable if you see a good plan laid out.

Answer 6

Just smile and say Ok honey.

Answer 7

im not married yet, but I support my fiance about anything he wants, and if it seems unrealistic just tell him youll support him in anything he wants, unless of course its going to make you guys broke or something.....out of curiosity whats his dream?

Answer 8

Politely tell him his package is big enough for you but not the p**n industry but be nice everyone has dreams you know.

Answer 9

When the time is right and open for you to give him feedback on what he's thinking/dreaming of, first start out by pointing out the benefits you see with his following his dreams, and then ask him if he's thought about the consequences; allow him to tell you what he thinks the consequences are.  When he doesn't mention the part(s) that seem to you to equate to his drams being unrealistic, restate one of the benefits - but then follow that up with the unspoken (possibly unrealized) consequence.  This mode will consistently show your support and love, will not come across as you judging him or holding him back from his dreams, and may help to uncover the possible faults/errors/consequences.  Hope that makes sense and helps.

Answer 10

What does he want to be a cowboy or something?