How do u tell ur bff, ur not bffs?

Question

I've been bffs w/ this girl since 3rd. But.....now we're in MS and I've met up w/ my other bff. Not saying I only want 1 bff, but I mean, we're growing apart. She's changing and so am I. But..I've been telling her we're bffs, and it's just not true. How do I tell her we're not?

thnx 4 the help.

-Ellie

Answer 1

dont tell her ur not bffs.  just stop saying that u r bffs.  just hang out with other friends and shell do the same.  

Answer 2

You can tell her without telling her and hurting her feelings. Just find more time to spend with your Bff that you have more in common with. She will get the hint and find her another bff she has more in common with and that way nobody gets hurt. Good luck

Answer 3

Just quit telling her you two are bffs, don't classify your friendship, but if she asks just tell her "it's hard to consider you a true best friend anymore because we are growing apart, that's not a bad thing, its just a natural part of life."  If she invites you to do stuff with her then do them, but if you really don't feel that way with her anymore than don't invite HER to do stuff with YOU.  Just let you two drift your separate ways.  Chances are she is thinking the exact same things as you are.

=) Good luck, losing friends are hard.

Answer 4

just ignore her and have lots of fights with her till

she leaves

your pretty much saying "sorry b*tch im leavin"