Husband has 3 kids from previous marriage. Divorced 10 years ago. Kids are 10, almost 12, and almost 13. We see them every second weekend and it's a rare occurrence if it goes without trouble. We have a 2 bedroom apartment so sending one kid to his/her room will only punish the others if they want to play in it. The oldest boy likes to run away when we try to keep him in there anyway. We tried getting them to write essays and lines on why their behavior isn't acceptable. Always ends in a fight. Can't ground them due to space issues. Can take away tv, video games, but that never works. Why should they care? In two days, they'll be back at their mother's. Her and I came up with an agreement on how to deal with things. Now she says she never had this talks with me. I am going to leave my husband because let's face it, I'm not capable to take care of these kids anymore. I'm emotionally and physically tired and I had a baby who needs me more than kids who already have a mom and dad. I may sound selfish right now but I'm the one who put in all the effort to help these kids when they needed it most and now I'm the bad guy because it's not working for them. Rant off....
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