How do we stop the bleeding `?

Question

we've been together 16 years and its been a long road, he works out of state and when hes homes he sleeps all the time we never socialize and theres no s*x life between us , I wish I could say we cheat but we don't . We could but we don't because we still have an amazing connection Its unavoidable which is why we don't split we are both afraid to never have that again it in this life time There is love but we do not have a man woman connection we do not enjoy our time together as man and wife but more like Friends who don't it is very frustrating and i just want to know how to break the tie that binds we did split up for a bit once and even got new mates but were on the phone steady to one another and eventually got back together for another go but still no romance how do we get it back after all these years or get out

Answer 1

have you tried sybaris?  Its so romantic  http://www.sybaris.com/modules/main/defa...

have you tried a marriage retreat weekend? http://www.wwme-ni.org/index.php

http://talksexwithsue.com/sexindex.html

GET THERAPY with a good marriage therapist.

You both love each other and want it so you can get it.....  

This marriage has lasted l6 lets help it last another l6 only happier and more fulfilling than ever!

Answer 2

wow I would get the h**l out

Answer 3

Personally, I would just get out.  But since you want to try and you want some romance, why dont you MAKE some.  It is not going to just happen.  So, get some s**y lingerie, candles, music, turn off the TV.  Act nice and s**y with your husband, start kissing his you-know-what and see where that gets you.  If he does not respond, it is a lost cause

Answer 4

Sorry, 16 years is too long to have a roomate.

I'd get out because I'd want a life with someone who could share it with me, be into me, and could be intimate with me. Someone who is willing and wants the same things as I do.  

Answer 5

cary on with the same relationship and improve the feeling of s*x slowly you will get into same