How do you act if someone is making your life h**l?

Question

He's a 52 year old man and his greatest pleasure is making my life h**l. He will take any chance he gets to get my mum to shout at me or moan at me and for no reason at all he just burst out and shouts at me for no reasons at all, and then when I tell my mum, she sides with him all the time. I'm honestly always sad and angry when hes around I just think hes an evil old man. He is making my life so depressing. The only time I ever get in trouble is when hes the cause of it.

Answer 1

no matter who or what is eating you..man u show it and you are dead..play it cool

Answer 2

You should remember Allaah for verily in the remembrance of Allaah the hearts are calmed.

Allaah says:

إلا بذكر الله تطمئن القلوب

((Verily with the remembrance of Allaah the hearts are made tranquil))

And in the remembrance of Allaah you have a protection from all harms.

Be patient as verily Allaah is with the patient.

Allaah says:

وبشر الصابرين

((And give glad tidings to the patient))

And He says:

إن الله مع الصابرين

((Verily Allaah is with the patient))

And be steadfast and do not lose your dignity for such a person so if he acts in a rude manner to you, then do not respond back like him, but rather remain silent or smile as this is a heavy blow to him and a protection for you.

If it's possible for you to avoid him as much as you can then do so. If he is around your house then restrict your presence near him. Make yourself busy when he is around so that he does not have a reason to even converse with you.

And remember how Allaah looks at you and how the Angels make Du'aa for you in your situation of hardship. And verily this man is nothing in comparison to the One who Created him and verily he will be called to account for his oppression and behavior.

Answer 3

Rise late in the night and engage in the wonderful Ibaadat of "Tahajjud Salaat"

The Ahaadeeth speak much about the great significance of this Salaat.

Perform also Salaatul Haajat when in need or in difficulty.

Recite - Tahmeed, Tasbeeh and Durood Shareef.

Protection - Muawwedhatain, the last two chapters Surah of the Quran.

Answer 4

ignore him and pray to Allah to get u thought this difficult time !! and try to talk to ur mom when he is not around !!

Answer 5

Your mom has a boyfriend? Maybe you should talk to her about that first...and for the rest, I guess you just have to be patient. Don't be rude to him. Try to talk to him peacefully and explain the situation to him from your perspective. Trust in Allah and He will make things better, Insh'Allah.

Salam.

Answer 6

I think you and your mum need to have a chat about this guy and find some sort of solution and be tolerant we can criticise but not be rude or anything such as shouting or swearing..show him and your mother that he is TESTING YOUR INTELLIGENCE!!!!!

Answer 7

Your mum shouldn't be dating it's haram in Islam. get her to see a imaan by both of you going to the mosque then say to her can you come with me I need to speak to the imaan. After which also rase this issue with him.

DO NOT lower yourself to your mum's boyfriend by being rude it will break u up with ur mum and that's what he wants.

Answer 8

Get them to share the heat with you. That will teach them!

Answer 9

you get a gun

Answer 10

Depending on how old you are, if you are of legal age to move out I would strongly suggest doing so. If not it's your own fault for living in misery. Leave a situation if you don't like it. Plain and simple