My husband's family is absolutely terrible. I was raised to have manners, to clean up after myself, to have good hygiene, and to respect other people's belongings/ house rules. My in-laws defy every one of those things I just mentioned. When they come to my house to visit my baby, I'm about ready to have a stroke and I flip out on hubby after wards. They haven't been to visit in a month (hallelujah!) and my relationship with hubby has been the best it's been since we were in our honeymoon stage of marriage two years ago. Our anniversary (2 yrs!) is next month! Everything's going great except for that baggage he calls "family."
How do I ask that he goes and visits them instead of having them over? Sometimes they just invite themselves over by calling and asking what we're doing. If hubby says we're having a cookout, they assume we invited them and they say they'll be over at 5.
My in-laws live 35 minutes away in the city and they're desperate to get out of the city and move to the country.... closer to us. I want my husband to set some boundaries and when I say I don't want them over, he still allows them over. (Even when chicken pox was going around in their household)
So how do I achieve happiness of never having to prepare the house for his guests again? Should I say, "Can't you go visit them?" :)
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