How do you catch a cheater?

Question

Who guards their cellphone and erases numbers?

Answer 1

To be sure they are cheating, there is one sure fire way.

Look into mirror for next 15 days. If you look like sh*t all day, you don't reciprocate his convo, you are always denying physical and emotional intimacy then ,

its OK for him to cheat..

Just go and get a life.

Answer 2

you eat their flesh of course or you can hire chuck norris he'll do it for you

Answer 3

hmm. thats tough. search there phone bill on the computerr.

Answer 4

Cheaters eventually reveal themselves by their own stupidity.

People who cheat are obvious.

If it's not obvious to you, you won't believe it even when you find proof.

Answer 5

Steal there Sim card while they are sleeping.put in a blank sim(buy a pay as you go phone for $20.00)There phone will work but its not the same # hope they dont figure it out(address book will be blank,unless you put in some) ,put sim in your phone and wait for the calls,if they dont figure it out put the Sim back.Sneaky and wrong but hey if ya have to do then its possible.

Or better yet,if your partner hides the phone and who is calling,dump there ****.They most likely are cheating or have a back-up booty-call,unless your B-Day is coming up.Trust me,just find some one that IS trustworthy,its such a waste of time.Its so nice to not even have to wonder what your partner is doing.Good Luck!

Answer 6

go on cheaters...

id watch it.

Answer 7

Mm.  If you're suspicious of a cheater, there are two possibilities: either you're suspicious of it because it's happening and you've caught a couple signs already, or you're suspicious of it despite the fact that it's not happening because you're overly paranoid.

The easy thing to check is your own paranoia.  People who are paranoid about cheating come in two categories: people who have been cheated on before, and people who have either cheated or thought seriously about cheating before.  If you've been cheated on before, then that really sucks, and it's baggage you're going to be carrying for the rest of your life, but you need to learn to trust people more and not put people through h**l for your paranoia.  If you've cheated or thought about cheating before, well, same advice, and serves you right.

If you haven't cheated or been cheated on or thought seriously about cheating before, then your suspicion is unfortunately probably fueled by truth.  Personally, in that case, I wouldn't wait to find the writing on the wall; I'd get clear of that relationship and look for someone you can trust.  (If you must confirm it, if she has a 'new' boyfriend within one or two weeks of the breakup, that's pretty much your smoking gun.)

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As a note to a couple of the above people: guarding one's cellphone and erasing numbers is not conclusive evidence of cheating.  As someone who's never cheated, tried to cheat, or been cheated on before, I regularly 'clean' my cellphone directory just so I don't have to sift through all sorts of people I never call anyway, and I don't like people snooping, not because I have anything to hide, but because it violates my privacy.  I also don't like people barging into the bathroom while I'm showering; not because I have something to hide, but because that's supposed to be private and intruding on it is disturbing and invasive.

Answer 8

Maybe I'm just impractical, but I'd build a giant mousetrap and put a hot chick in the place where the chunk of cheese would usually go...

Answer 9

The flowers test! Have you friend call her and act like he is a floweriest and he is giving away free flowers as a promotion because it is the grand opening. Then have him ask which person she wants to give them too and what the address is.  If she gives the flowers to you, shes not cheating, if not.... Good Luck!

Answer 10

These sites can give you some ideas:

http://www.brickhousesecurity.com/catch-...

http://www.womansavers.com/catch-a-cheat...

Answer 11

End the relationship. 2 reasons:

1. You dont trust em -why stay?

2. If they go with someone else shortly after - well .....

*extension to this if every one you date you are convinced is cheating is it perhaps you with the problem?

Answer 12

UMMMMM......DUH, sounds like you already caught 'em! If theres nothing to hide, then why hide it? Theres no reason to delete the history of your cell phone, just like theres no reason to delete the history on your computer. Only young men that are surfing p**n and dont want there parents to find out delete the internet history. Is it all making sense?

Answer 13

cheaters always get caught out in the end

in the meantime they're accumulating some pretty bad karma for themselves

Answer 14

I didn't... until the other one girl called me from the other side of the world. Maybe if I have checked his phone I have knew, but I'm not that kind of person.

Answer 15

Get a copy of the bill. which is really easy.. LOL. if you live together, once he opens the bill. Take it.. Sign up for online bill pay..

my cell phone company TMOB.. allows you to see all the #'s that were called and what days.. online!. (to sign up up for it, i needed basic stuff--like my ph#, ssn#, acct #.

If he has a nokia there is a section under the call log that says message recipients..

Most ppl dont pay attention to it, or forget to erase it.. so you can find #'s there..

** but i doubt you need to do any of this

1) strong suspicion on your part--means theyprob r giving signs of cheating

2)If everything is erased.. then they are hiding something.. They may be a slick cheater..who erases only what they need to hide.. (in that case see the above notes)..

3) Call cheaters!!