How do you come out of your shell when you've just started school??

Question

i cant really help it, and im never going to get a boyfriend now because they will think im boring and pathetic coz im shy :-)

Answer 1

join clubs and sports

Answer 2

confidence is key to sucess

Answer 3

I am in your situation exactly!

I'm really shy

but around my friends im not

i know this is annoying and cliche

haha

but just be yourself

you'll find a guy that wants you for you

shyness and all :D

wow that did sound cliche-ey but thats about all you can do

cuz im not going to tell you to be more outgoing

cuz i know how hard that is

so just be yourself =]

the right guy will come

Answer 4

Haha! Sorry, you just remind me of myself. Just involve yourself. Seriously, it sounds nerdy and cheesy and unhelpful, but try volleyball or basketball or cheerleading or track. Or student council. It will give you an excuse to go crazy then you will get more comfortable with it and be okay!

Answer 5

wear really short mini skirts, with your b***s half hanging out of a tube top and condom packets falling out of your bag...

No - seriously, listen to the people above...join some afterschool activity...it's the only freakin way to make friends.

I was the weird shy kid who was always moving schools coz my parents got divorced...it's sh1tty trying to make friends when you're shy...and trust me, being shy doesn't ever go away, you just learn how to control it.

And don't be as egocentric as to believe that in your entire school, you are the only shy kid, (I see shy people, they're everywhere) and tell you what - SHY GUYS are the best!

Good luck, you'll get through it...just remember, you are not as special as you think you are, and almost everyone in your entire school is dealing with some or other problem, whether it's being shy, parents going through divorce, depression, bad grades, boyfriend cheating on them, blah blah blah...

Answer 6

I would say just be friendly, smile alot, and make eye contact. Start conversations with people, it could be as simple as saying you like their shirt.Then know that no one is better than you.