How do you deal with a partner who is too well-endowed?

Question

My fiance and I have the problem of him being too well-endowed. It is such that it sometimes inhibits our ability to have intercourse. We have tried lubricant and focusing on foreplay which works sometimes.

Are their any other suggestions out there?

Answer 1

yes..i had the same problem with mu husband.......right...

now i know it can be painful, and uncomfortable, but ur body will adjust to the size, actually im surprised it hasnt by now, as u 2 are already engaged. i felt the best position for me, was me on top, that way i could decide the depth.....etc. doggy was also just about mamageable. it should relly only take about 6 weeks for u t be able to take him comfortably, but i know the feeling when u see the size of it coming towards u!......plz do try ur best to relax.....(i dont need to tell u that)........loads of lube......and well, oral s*x, to take the 'pressure' off of u!.....thats always a winner!..even the foreplay can help i know, but have u 2 tried the 'tantric s*x'?....this so worked for me....cos it got me so worked up..and really wanting it........add that to the lube....and u on top......and yee haw!...all the way....... give it a go :)

Answer 2

Maybe your tense and need to relax.  No p***s is too big for a v****a. Are you using condoms, maybe there are making you dry and yo should change the brand. If you arnt then use lubricant/oil.

If you worry then your v****a muscles tense making intercourse very difficult.

PS - you are so lucky

Answer 3

Get yourself some different sized toys and start small and work your way up.

Answer 4

after having s*x for years, your v****a should be stretched enough, anyhow foreplay can help to make you wet enough before intercourse. use more lubricant, use toys of bigger size.

being on top will help you to control penetration depth, doggie also is good in your case.just relax so your muscles can be stretched and take it all.

Answer 5

be well aroused and well lubricated and ps BE THANKFULL

Answer 6

sounds like you do not get wet enough...

it's the the size of the boat.. it's the knowledge of the captain of his vessel and the seas...

Answer 7

Have more s*x and you will stretch.

Also after the first child it will be easier

Answer 8

Same problem here, with the length mainly. It's all about the right positions and right angles. I arch my back a lot and turn to a certain angle so I have control over his movements so he won't go too deep.