...when it's not your child?
My fiancé's niece (8y) will eat the following:
Bread, white, crusts removed.
Tortilla shells, white
Pasta
Tomato sauce (the cheap, running, no texture kind)
Cheddar cheese
Boiled hot dogs
...oh, and an assortment of junk food.
She's incredibly inactive, in fact I would say lazy: She will go to the park, but she will not walk/ride a bike/ride a scooter there. She wants to be driven. Consequently, she is a bit on the chubby side, but God forbid her mother say anything.
We were at a festival this past weekend, where she ordered a hotdog with just ketchup, and a Diet Coke: The hot dog was a bit burnt, and she whined and complained. I peeled off the burnt bit for her and gave it back, at which point she whined some more and refused to eat anything more.
Her mother is not making an effort, not picking her battles, but just letting her daughter do whatever, whenever, especially when dealing with food. Later that night, my niece-to-be started complaining about being hungry and insisted on going out for dessert--to which her mother willingly obliged (which is something that occurs regularly)
Would you talk to her (my niece-to-be's mother) about this?
How would you deal with this when you...
a)Are with my niece-to-be, but not her mom
b) Are with both of them.
Unfortunately, my fiance's niece lacks any sort of a role model nutritionally, and I'm worried that this will spiral out of hands. Sure, kids should be kids...but they need to learn how to eat properly at some point, and sooner is better than later.
Thanks!
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