How do you deal with awkward sexual situations?

Question

If you're with a new guy and the first few times you've tried to have s*x he loses his erection or can't finish... How should you deal with that? How do you make him not feel awful, and the situation as not-awkward as possible? And should you try to turn him on again? Or just leave it be... Is there anything that can be done?

Answer 1

He most likley has performance anxiety, because this is a new relationship he is very nervous and stresses about having s*x and that is preventing him from maintaining an erection. Give it time and I think it will get bettter.

If your boyfriend is wearing condoms and blames his inability to get an erection on that, that is a different story.

If that's the case email me.

-Connor

Answer 2

You may want to message him all over and quiver next to him . Show

him you care. Plus there are other things that for sure will help him,

really help him. But I can not get into it on yahoo answers. How old is

this guy, That may be part of it?

Answer 3

You must try to read his mind. Has he lost interest in the s*x, or does he want to continue with it, and has only lost his erection? If it's the former, then tell him it's OK, and it happens to everyone. If it's the latter, you can continue to stimulate his d**k, and he may even c-u-m while it is soft