I was reminded this morning that I didn’t send a gift for my cousin’s kids b-day. I feel terrible about this, since me and this particular cousin grew up together and I always give a gift to her kid. Me and Dh are childless, not by choice but by fate. Should it be expected that since we have no kids to buy a gift for each kid we know? This is what we have done in the past, probably a bad habit started on our part, but I get so tired of getting gift want lists from each kid in our family! I usually ask the parents what they need, not what they want, and they don’t tell me sizes of clothes or that they need socks, they just tell me to get the latest and the greatest toy that their kid wants. This drives me nuts!! Any suggestions about how to handle this? I usually set a budget for each kid of $10-$15, should I lower the budget?
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