How do you deal with jealousy toward a friend of yours who is dating a girl that you really like?

Question

Well, it's like this: this girl I met in college is something else; she is completely different than the rest around campus. I was scared to tell her how I felt about her. We became friends eventually, something that I was hoping will move on to the next stage. However, she was pregnant with this dude's baby(not the friend) who I really dislike. This dude hasn't been supportive during the time of her pregnancy through the school year. What I did know was there was this other guy who the girl met at orientation who develop this relationship with her. Even if she's wasn't with the baby's father no more (which is really, REALLY good), I became somewhat jealous of this guy pursuing her. I started conversations with him, and he seems like a cool guy to talk to. We became friends as well, but I still try my best in secret to win the girl. I told her about my feelings for her, but it wasn't enough; she was in love with him. I didn't want this to happen, but the dude was extremely supportive of her, and I was too in different ways. He call her every day, but I call her probably once or twice a week. I just don't know what to do now. Will someone help me, PLEASE?!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

You learn from your mistake!!  You should have told her from the start that you liked her!  Oh well better luck next time!

Maybe she will let you be the godfather!

Answer 2

sorry but your kind of late

unless u wanna tell her if u can have one date with her [maybe that'll change her mind] if u know what i mean

Answer 3

you poor thing, move back into your parents home and stay there. this world does not have a place for spineless people like you.

Answer 4

Sounds like he was more supportive, and if she does love him, there is nothing you can do except be there if anything happens with their relationship.