How do you deal with over thinking things in a relationship?

Question

It often causes drama between my girlfriend and me.

I'm afraid that it'll tear us apart! I'm afraid that It'll be my fault, as she seems to not have a problem with insecurity.

Answer 1

I feel your pain. Both me and my fiancee have a tendency to over think things. The solution however, is trust. You just have to learn to trust her completely. Wont happen overnight, but take some time to work on it.

Good Luck

Answer 2

I thought everyone did that, over analyze actions and even conversations but, apparently not. Its ok to think about things but, force yourself to keep your mouth shut unless you have proof of wrong doing. Trust is key to any relationship, and if shes never given you a reason not to trust her then you will drive her away. Its okay to be a little jealous.