How do you deal with someone who pushes and pulls you? I am struggling, please help...

Question

My "friend" leads me on, then I don't hear from him. I'm tired of trying to give him the benefit of the doubt: that he's just not ready for a relationship. We have all of the pieces that would make a relationship great but he doesn't take it to that level.

I don't want him to contact me. What do I do?

Answer 1

Don't let him contact you and ignore if he tries.Simple,move on.

Answer 2

Simple: Find another and junk him.

Answer 3

Maybe he just doesn't want a relationship with you! There is nothing wrong with that! You stated he doesn't "take it to that level" so why are you upset!  

Not everyone person is going to want you!  Not every person is going to want me! It's reality!  So what!  Move on!

If you don't want him to contact you, don't let him!  If he calls, don't answer!  If he texts/ emails, don't respond!  He will get sick of trying and will leave you alone. ( But I doubt that is REALLY what you want)

I think you need to figure out what you really want then deal with the reality that he may not want the same!

Good Luck!