How do you feel about this? KINDA PG13 QUESTION!?

Question

How do you feel about s*x before marriage? Are you a con or a pro? Why? Just want to hear the opinions of other people.

What's your thought about all this s*x before marriage deal? AND TEENS who have already lost their virginity, do you have regrets on it? Why did you do it? Was it pressure by the guy/girl?

Why do teens think it is cool to have s*x? I am 15 and find it a bad choice, but that's just me.

Guys, why must you be so horny and think about girls inappropriately all the time? Or however much you do think about that stuff...

Answer 1

You're 15 so I'll cut you a break and keep it clean(er).  You're 15 and find it a bad choice right?  Remember this question.  Now when you fall for a boy you really REALLY like because it's true love and he really loves you and is sweet and you'll be together forever blah blah blah.....Let's see how long until you're doing everything he wants you to do.  Young boys are horny because they're created that way and are very normal.  It doesn't meant they're sick or perverted, they cannot help it.

Answer 2

Same as how I feel about test driving a car before spending good amount of $ on it. s*x education, and no not the condom and a cucumber, bu t he pregnancy and mortality rates data and alike should be in every school, so s*x and a possibility of pregnancy and STD contraction become synonymous in teenage minds.

Answer 3

cuz there guys...your like what a soph..right?

no offense or anything but you sound so naiive

Answer 4

I agree entirely with the first 2. You do not seem to understand that self preservation is #1 in a man's mind, hence the unresolved urge to have s*x and reproduce.

Your thoughts on it show that you are actually the weird one, as reproduction is natural.

Your alive because people were pregnant and married by 16 years old 200 years ago.

So, quit being a tool, and remember that people are people and your opinions only matter to you.

Kudos to the first 2 answers.

Answer 5

Okay..first of all I'm not for OR against s*x before marriage. I believe that if the person is truly someone that you love, and trust, and know wont make you do it if you don't want to, and you want to share that with them then go ahead. My personal choice would be waiting for marriage though, but that's just me. I would like to know that the person isn't just with me for the s*x, so I would prefer to wait.

As for the why people do it part, people that are in love are blinded by love a lot of the time, and well - things just happen. A lot of it is more then likely peer pressure. "My friends are doing it! So i'll be a loser if I don't..." or doing it because they're worried that their partner will leave if they don't, or just because teens hormones are raging and they can't control them well..

Uhm not so sure about this question. Some do I guess, some do it because of hormones, and others actually think that they "love" the person they're with. I'm a year older then you and about a couple months ago I stopped thinking s*x was nasty and stuff.. lots changes when you meet the right person. I think you're making a good choice though, less chance of getting hurt in the long run. :]

The last question made me laugh actually..sorry :p It's because boy's are different then girls. Why do girls think about shopping and clothes and makeup all the time, and guys don't? It's just part of being a girl or a guy. Also, guys naturally have more raging hormones then girls, so many that they can't always control them. It's a guy thing..and us girls will never know how that feels because we don't have that high hormone levels. They don't think about it ALL the time, just most of the time. :S

Answer 6

yeah i agree. im 16 and i think s*x before marriage is ok but not at such a young age. and if your bf really wants and loves you he wont continualy push you to do things. s*x isnt just s*x. its a large responsibility. nothing is truly safe and you want to make sure that if your going to have it that its the person you would want o start a family with.