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How do you feel about your ex-husband's spouse?

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This question is for ex-wives. Do you hate his second wife? Are you jealous of her? Do you trust her with your children? Is it hard to share your children with her?

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  1. I feel sorry for my ex's new wife.  He is a cheating pig.  But she is a trophy wife and alot younger than me, so I guess in a way I'm a bit jealous even though I'm married again to a great guy.  I do not trust my child with her as she let my 5 year old iron her own dress and she burned herself......duh!!!  Thank goodess I don't have to share with them as we live far away from them. thak God


  2. I've been in both situations.  My ex-husband is now remarried - I have no problem with my kids staying with them whenever they want, although my son doesn't particularly like her so he tends not to go (he's 17, so old enough to make his own decisions).  My partner also has an ex-wife.  She's a different thing altogether!  There's no way she'd allow their (teenage) son to ever meet me.  In fact, she's built it up in his mind that I'm the wicked witch of the west.  She also takes my partner to court at every opportunity for more money (she refuses to get a job) and fills the kid's mind with total c**p about his father, so not only is he almost bankrupt because of her, but his kid refuses to see him too.  And he only married her because she was pregnant!  She told him she was on the pill, but then decided (after discussing it with her mother, mind you - not him) to go off it.  When she got pregnant, she told him it was an 'accident' and he felt honour-bound to marry her.   Worst decision of his life.  I just hope karma kicks in sometime soon.  Still, the kid's nearly 18 now - old enough to make his own mind up about things.

  3. My ex has been married 5 times in the 23 years we have been divorced...I really have not met any of them but 1 and I felt sorry for her ..she soon divorced him.  I have never remarried and live a very happy life  As far as the children he was denied visitation by the court...but did not want it anyway.

  4. I think she is in for a rude awakening. I don't know her we don't live in the same state and I have only met her once. I think she has no idea what she has gotten herself into and she will be my ex's future ex wife.

  5. all those years ago i did hate her for destroying my marriage, but she got no prize, she had to endure over 30 years of cheating and betrayal.they fought constantly, now he is an old sick man and he is forced to raise her children's children when he is ill. it was hard to let my daughter go to their house, because this woman always spoke ill of me, it was her who was jealous of me.

  6. His wife doesn't bother me in the least bit. As far as I'm concerned, he's her problem now, not mine. My kids are grown and they know who their loyalty belongs to and it isn't the ex or his wife.  

  7. been there done that

    yes i was jealous at first

    yes it was hard to trust her around the children.

    but then because of the way she was she is not longer

    in the picture,  ex husband being as he was, the marriage

    did not last,  so then i did not have to worry about it.

    I say just talk to the children find out how they feel

    then you will know if you have anything to worry about.

    as for feeling jealous, you really shouldn't  or your could be accused of

    having feelings still for the ex,  

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