How do you feel about your husband's ex-wife( ex-girlfriend), the mother of his children?

Question

Are you jealous of her? Do you hate her? Are you friends with her? Just curious....Please, be very honest, nobody is going to judge you here....

Answer 1

i've known my boyfriends ex-wife for like 8 years

she was best friends with my sister

to be honest i don't like her she hasn't spoken to me but i know for a fact she talks behind my back why can't she come up to me and tell me i hate people like that i mean she knows were i life

sometimes i do feel jelous because he has two kids with her and there like a piece of both of them and maybe one day we will have kids but still its not the same i feel like he will always love her no matter what she did in the past and i will always come secound

Answer 2

I'm annoyed by her... and the other her... only because she won't leave us alone and he seems to become defensive with me when she calls, instead of just changing his number.  But, mark my word, SHE IS VERY CLEAR ON MY FEELINGS!

But Im not jealous of her...

Answer 3

No, im not jealous of my husband's ex wife because obviously he moved on to something better. No I don't hate her, I don't even know her but I know of her.

Answer 4

well....I do not like her and I don't care if she likes me or not...I am good to their children and love them like my own and that is all she should be concerned with...

Answer 5

I don't hate her, that feels like wasted emotional energy to me

I hate what she does

We decided not to let her control us or what we do and it drives her crazy.  We go on about our lives and do not deal with her until we are ready to.

It took a lot of time, but by not letting her get to us, we are taking the high road and that feels right to me

Answer 6

well i hated an x wife. she had no kids butthe inlaws acted like she was gods gift and i heard when she was married to him they were just as mean to her as i. it was unreal. she supoet o have left him after he came back from korea. but you dnt' hear the entire stuff she was a year with out him and he had naother woman pg and had kids and she was not married to him it was unreal. so you know what she was fed up with him also i mean he was something else procreating with all he could espceailly koreans. what a man well hes gone.

Answer 7

i just got home from picking up my stepson from his mom's house with my husband. we went inside and saw her 2 day old baby. i am alright with her. i'm not jealous of her at all. in fact, we used to have problems with her jealously of me. things are ok now.  

Answer 8

jealous because she got him before me

hate her for him even loving her

curious to see what he saw in her

Answer 9

all above

Answer 10

my husband does not have a exwife. i am his first and last

Answer 11

Nope I'm not jealous of her, I know his feelings about her. I don't feel anything for her so I guess that means I don't hate her. We used to be friends when she was married to my husband but quit being friends before they divorced. I'm not mad that they have a child together, I love my step-daughter as much as I love my own children.

Answer 12

i dont like her and she doesnt like me. she stole him away from me when we were in highschool and eventually became the mother of his 2 daughters and im kinda jealous that she has his children but now i have himm..so it i guess it KINDA worksout!!

BUT YEA WE DONT LIKE EACHOTHER!

Answer 13

Actually I'm a bit jealous but she is mostly my friend.She is really nice