How do you feel when .................... ?

Question

Well OK,

This one is on the lighter side. How do you feel when a member you make your contact reciprocates and then deletes you from their contact list after some time.

It has happened to me and I am just wondering what happened. I still have her as my contact but she is no longer in my fans list .

What would you do in such a situation ? You see, I have accidentally deleted one of my cherished contacts in the past. But I took them back immediately.

What would you do ?

Keep smiling and God Bless.

Answer 1

They added you, found that you are not interesting "to them", and hence deleted you. What is there not to understand?

I wouldn't feel anything, and I wouldn't do anything either.

In fact, I wouldn't even know because I would not go back and check every once in a while to see if my contacts are still my fans or not.

Answer 2

I am very conscientious about maintaining my contact/fan lists.  I check at least every couple of weeks to see if any of them have:

1. suddenly put me on BLOCK (that I am unable to view THEIR PROFILE... a sure sign of blocking)

2. no longer have a profile (they were suspended, deleted, or whatever... again unable to view their profile!)

3. been inactive for an extended period of time... both in their answers and questions.  If they're inactive for, say, 4+ months, I will assume that they have "dropped" contributing to Y!A, and won't be back.  If they DO return, and wish to be a contact again, I will gladly add them back.

So you see, there ARE legitimate reasons why someone might delete you as their contact.  But don't worry about you, m'dear... you're still SAFE!  <wink>

Have a polite day.

Answer 3

I wouldn't care.  I enjoy coming here and browsing and it's nice to be able to help someone out when you can, but I don't really have any feeling either way about whether people find me interesting or not.