How do you find out who you are? and how do you become who you want to be?

Question

How do you find out who you are? and how do you become who you want to be?

Answer 1

I think it's a maturity thing. You find out who you are by life experiences, this includes partners, friends and family you surely know who you feel most comfortable around. People will get to a point where they can't be bothered with people they find to be annoying, obnoxious or rude or just plainly don't want to be around, so they don't be around them or try not to be at least. Most people know what their likes and dislikes are pretty early on in life, sometimes this can change but not often, if you build on this you will find out what you like, then if you start to build on your likes you will find out what you want to be. Some people are in their 30's or 40's before they figure out what they want to be. Confidence and feeling happy and content with yourself is the key to figuring out your yourself. Good luck

Answer 2

first, you have to see what you think others see when they look at you and figure out what you want to change

Answer 3

You'll never find a definite answer to who you are (no one really will) since you're constantly changing. Every moment is new and you're having new thoughts, new experiences and new moment that are shaping you into something else.

The most you could hope for is to find out who you WANT to be -- and become that. You can only become who you want to be by action. Its not enough to think about, you have to actually DO it and become it.

Answer 4

To do this you need to simply....think about making changes in your life. And take your own path. There is no exact right answer for this question.