How do you find someone for a Threesome?

Question

Me and my husband want a threesome but don't know how to find a girl who is willing to do it. We go to night clubs but no success. How do i know who wants to be part of a threesome when we go out. Help ...I'm not asking if this is wrong or right so please just help...

Answer 1

Go to a swingers club ! Look online for local swinger club in your area.

Answer 2

keep night-clubing. youll find it there :)

Answer 3

Craigslist has all sorts of hos you can find. Let us know how your divorce works out.  

Answer 4

I was going to ask this same question. My husband and I have been searching everywhere for another male. (We want a MMF) We search bars, clubs, online, the newspaper, etc. We're young (22) and everybody that we find either lives in another country or their older than our parents. We're having a hard time finding somebody under 30 to come play with us.

Answer 5

try craigslist...heard theres alot of activity like that going on...on that site...good luck...and be SAFE!

Answer 6

try craigslist

Answer 7

HAHA thats golden

Answer 8

The best way to find anyone for a swinging encounter is to look in swinging communities. The best on line community I have found is http://www.Swingtowns.com

You will find like minded people there seeking as you are. Bars and clubs are not advised for your search as you will be ensured a much more positive outcome connecting with others who think as you do.

Good Luck!

Ginni

Answer 9

You can find a girl online.

Try craigs list, adult friend finder, lifestyles lounge, swing lifestyle.

In the swinging comunity single women are called "unicorns"

That is because they are very special and hard to find.

Have fun, play safe.

Marty

Answer 10

There are some you'll find on swinger dating sites like Swing Lifestyle, Swingular, Swappernet and Lifestyle Lounge.  But you won’t find allot of them because women don’t advertise for sexual encounters with the frequency of men.  So those you do find will be highly sought after and you'll have allot of competition for their attention.  For instance, on one swingers dating site we are members of the ratio of single men looking for couples to couples looking for single men is 2 to 1, and the ratio of couples looking for single women to single women looking for couples is 25 to 1.

So where do you find a bisexual single woman looking for a threesome with a couple? Well, my wife and I have been in the swinger lifestyle for over five years now, and in the lifestyle we call such women "unicorns", and for a good reason: finding one is about as common and finding a unicorn.

Now that said, we have had several FMF threesomes (though MFMF and MFM is much easier to come by), and with each one it was with women we met outside the swinger lifestyle, women we met in everyday life, like at a regular night club, or someone we met at a mutual friends BBQ or some other non-swinger party.

How to meet them? Well, remember when you were single and looking for a boyfriend, and your boyfriend was single and looking for a girlfriend? Same thing, except now, as a couple, you are looking for a girlfriend. The same rules apply to picking-up a unicorn as would apply if your boyfriend was trying to meet and pick-up you. No different. The unicorn wants to be treated the same way you, as a woman, wants to be treated by a man, except she wants to be treated that way by both of you.

My wife and I are both very outgoing, and when we go out places she and I tend to be social butterflies and meet allot of people. My wife is the greatest wingman in the world, too. She met a woman at a concert in a small venue a few weeks ago, introduced her to me and we, along with her friends ended-up partying that night. About a week later we met her alone for a date.

And I guess that's a good way of putting it. You are now dating as a couple rather than as a single woman or a single man. And again, that is what the unicorn is looking for. A couple that she clicks with. The attraction has to be there with both of you in order for her to get naked with both of you, just like that attraction had to be there with another when you were single. Just because they are bisexual doesn't mean they'll have s*x with anyone anytime. Unicorns are as picky as you are about who they sleep with.

So approach it like that. Look for them in regular everyday settings. Put out that "vibe" that you are a secure and sexually open couple, and they'll find you.

Answer 11

In a way you are advertising your partner and yourself for a threesome. This means you need to find a market of those who would be interested. Going to a nightclub or using a social networking site may not produce the results you expect.

My advice is try a swingers club or try a web site dedicated to swinging (see below). Another option maybe to try a L*****n bar but I would hold off on that as a last option or maybe search for a couple that is willing to share the female with you.

In any event I do suspect your search will take a while do to the fact there are not as many single women looking for threesomes as single males.