How do you forget a guy you really like?

Question

Well I don't know what to do to anymore. Have any of you had to forget someone you really like?? Well... if you have... how did you??

Answer 1

Unless he died think about how it couldn't work, time will heal it.

Answer 2

Find a better Guy. Unless he died then it will take some time.

Answer 3

You never forget that special someone. You have to find something that fills your life with happiness, and try to move on. I always remember the good times that we had, which does give you happiness, but you have to move on or you will never have a happy day. Believe me life is to short to make yourself miserable by not moving on because you can't be with someone.  

Answer 4

time and finding another guy ull forget about him but mainly just time

Answer 5

It's really hard to get over someone especially if your head over hills. So i know this may be hard ,but you need to erase him from your life. This means no pictures,no email,no IM,no anything that reminds you of him. and then when your completely , fully 100 percent over him you can move on to someone else or you could try being friends with the old guy, but only if you are emotionally ready

Answer 6

you don't really forget him...you just have to force yourself to move on. I was involved in a relationship that just couldn't work, and had to just be strong and move on...it's been 5 years and I still dream about him sometimes, but I don't long for him the way I used to. You just have to learn to deal with the hurt feelings and they will fade over time so you will be able to look back fondly, instead of with regret

Answer 7

oh gosh, this one's a long story. i'm on a summer swim team. i liked this guy kevin for the past two years and we only saw each other in the summer, but i still liked him. we didnt talk often until this year when i started dating his best friend. oookay sooo his best friend and i kinda did somethin baaad together the first time we met :\ YES i regret it anyways lol i'd only known that kid for less than a month, but i'd known the guy i liked for two years. and honestly i still liked him when i was with his best friend. we started talking more and becoming pretty good friends. and i said one time you know whats funny? i'd liked you for two years and now i'm dating your best friend hahah and then he said whats funny is i liked you too and i'm like omgg lol. so then me and his bff lasted 3 weeks and a week after we broke up i was texting w/ him and he said so now that you and my friend are over i can say this..i still kinda like you and i was like omg i like you too! soo then things were alright with him until my ex started complicating things so kevin [thats his name] and i had to keep things on the DL. kevin gets his phone taken away a lot so we couldnt always talk. i tried asking him ot hang outand he'd say yes but when it came time to hang out i'd be like so are we hanging out today? and he'd be like No. and i'm like oh okay. text me later<3 and he'd never text me. he never called me back. i barely talked to him. alll i wanted to do was hang out with him..i liked him SO MUCH its ridiculous..i finally was able to date somebody i actually KNEW, instead of dating some random guy i'd known for two weeks. then one nigh ti was bored an di texted him and i'm lke hey are you busy? to see if he could talk then and hes lke no. but i have to be honest with you i really dont like you like that. and i'm like what? what happened from two weeks ago til now? and hes like to be honest your clingy and annoying. [which i'm SO not, i just get so nervous when i talk to him...] and he ended up yelling and cursing at me because i was sad and upset..then the next day after the swim picnic [he was there and heCONVENIENTLY brought his best friend] he was yelling at me through texting agian. you have no idea how rude he was to me. he said things like i'm a s**t i'm ugly blah blah blah it was so horrible. he thinks i'm a s**t, he should take a look a this best friend. he is a FXCKING w***e. anyways lol i'm sorta over him but i'm sorta not. i'm always gonna lke him no matter what and icant help it. it just sorta helped knowing that how could i be with someone who has the potential to treat me with such disrespect. did this guy do anything to you? the one you like, i mean. did he hurt you at all? what'd he do? if he did anything that you didnt like, think to yourself, "why would i wanna be with someone who does that to me?"

hope this helps :]

Answer 8

you don't & it sucks

Answer 9

Time and distractions are the only things that help.  

Answer 10

Get a new guy

Answer 11

its hard to forget someone dear. its not a overnight thing. it takes time. you just have to focus on some other things and try to distract your mind from the boy.

Answer 12

I'm in the same position you're in. I don't think you can. I've even broke up with boyfriends because I can't get the other guy out of my head. I think it's a curse.  

Answer 13

I tried and tried and tried before I finally gave up.  After a few years I finally figured out that the reason I couldn't stop thinking about her is because she really was a great woman.She had a lot of qualities I would have like to have had. After that, I found myself becoming more like her. I took life a lot less serious.  I started wearing socks and shoes that my feet enjoyed. I developed her sense of humor, her view of the world and love of photography. Basically, I became her. Not in an obsessive way at all. I just realized she was right about a lot of things and I was way too paranoid at the time.

I eventually learned that love really does last forever. I became a lot happier the day I accepted that and stopped fighting against myself.

Answer 14

Alzheimer  

Answer 15

Focus more on yourself and your own issues.

Answer 16

i either found a way to be mad at him or flirted with other guys.

Answer 17

time can heal it.

Answer 18

You never forget him.  Trust me.  I was in love with someone since we were both 13.  We both were in love but we never dated.  We were both too shy to ask each other out.  Now here it is almost 20 years after we graduated, and I finally got in touch with him, again, and we admitted we had feelings for each other but it's too late.  We're both married with kids, and we both regret not being together.  He will always be someone I love.  But at least now we can die knowing our true feelings.

Answer 19

    It was a little tough and it takes a while to forget someone you really really like......but this is how i do it.

1. move on to other guys/girls.

2. find something really fun to do so you'll be distracted and not think about him/her.

3. hang out with your friends and you'll eventually fade the memory away, so just chill out for a bit.