How do you get NOTICED!?????

Question

Not many people even know i exist some days (and ignore me the whole day) - AND THERE IN MY CLASS!!! Well, this question is mostly about the guy i like. He dosen't ignore me ALL the time, just alot. I'm not shy, And even when i ask people questions they ignore me. What do i do to get noticed? Please don't answer stuff like "Thats there problem if they don't notice you" and "there is nothing you can do" and stuff, because i REALLY need to know what i can DO or something to get noticed (especially by the person i like). Do i change stuff about myself? and what do i change? I smile alot, laugh alot and i am happy almost all the time! I'm dying my hair blonde soon, do you think that will get people to notice me?

Answer 1

dont change who you are just to get noticed more. just be yourself. i mean if you cant figure out why people are ignoring you and i or anyonelse who has answered can figure it out either then there is nothing wrong with you. do you have any friends. start becoming more active social-wise and try hanging out with the guy you like. just be like hey wanna go blah blah with a bunch of other people this weekend?

Answer 2

well dont act unoticed and dont ask why they ignore you that just makes you look week and needy juss make him want you by ignoring him back.

Answer 3

i dont think u shud change things about yourself to get noticed, but instead of asking a question (unless its for class or something) you could start a conversation with someone or give someone a compliment on there clothes and then ask where they bought it.

Answer 4

Its seem like it might be that you're almost TOO happy or perhaps obvious that you want to get someone's attention.

Maybe if you're more reserved, and a little more moody. I dont think you should be all weird and angsty but... i mean, if someone nearby you says something, dont just automatically laugh or agree just because you think thats what they want. If there's something you dont completely agree with or dont think is THAT funny, then roll your eyes a little and shake your head subtly, you know? Then they'll see that youre a bit hard to please so that when you finally do agree or laugh, then they'll feel that what they said was worthy and they'll have more respect for you.

I agree with the person who said you should compliment people. But do be careful. Compliments can sometimes come off as a desperate attempt for friendship. If you're going to compliment dont be like "omigod! I love your shirt. That color looks so great with your hair!"

It's better to give a quiet, simpler compliment (unless you love something about them so much that you just cant restrain yourself).

For example. Approach the person. Look at them for a couple seconds. Slowly nod your head approvingly and then quietly say "hm..I like your shirt."

Im not sure if dying your hair blonde is necessarily the way to go, but if you get it done and it looks good and it makes you feel good, then go for it.  

Answer 5

to get noticed, to be heard you have to get respect.

if someone ignored me, i would get in their face and yell "excuse me" with a snappy tone. (BUT THATS ME)

Get involved, do as many sports, and school activities as you can!

Be social, and sweet, but NEVER be a pushover, when people learn that you have no backbone, they wont stop, and they will take advantage. Dont dye your hair just because you want to get noticed, that wont work, a lot of blondes are ignored where i got to school because people over look them, (blonde is out!) You dont have to be physically attractive to be noticed, just be friendly, sweet, and social, GET INVOLVED, and you wont have a problem =]

i think i should be a highschool counselor.

Answer 6

Maybe you're trying to hard.  Maybe they are annoyed with you for being too eager.  I'm not trying to sound negative, I really sympathize with you.  Don't change for anyone.  That makes you seem fake.

Answer 7

yes this actually tends to happen 2 me when im in school cuz well cuz im painfully shy n quiet around ppl all the time!!,so i know were ur coming from ,all u need to do probably is start complanting ppl more i think and just start knowing what theyre really interested in and start talkin about it w/ them,also changing ur look up alot wouldnt be a bad idea just change ur hair drastically but very hott and make ur style pop and look unique but not in a weird way lol so this will probably help u out,but i dont get ignored that much like u just alilbit  

Answer 8

Make up something huge. Be like, yea yesterday I saw Hannah Montana in person, she said we can chill later. When they all freak out and start asking questions if that was true, be like, "hey who the ***** are you??" and then you start ignoring people. Then you will be tough and cool. And then that guy will dig u

Answer 9

reality is you can't change yourself, you have to be yourself because everyone else is taken. If you pretend to be someone your not they will see right through that. The only thing you can do is be yourself, be friendly, share your opinions, join in and have fun.

xx be true to yourself