How do you get READY for someones DEATH?

Question

I have a big family.........finally three years ago the first person to die in my family was my 15 year old cousin than my grandfather 3 months later than my grandma a few weeks ago................now i find out my 4 year old cousin has a few months to live

DEATH IS TAKING MY FAMILY ONE BY ONE!!! AND FAST TOO

im still not over my first death yet.........i still cry for my cousin and think about him everyday and its been 3 years.....................I dont know if i can handle my 4 year old cousin dying because of a tumor that they cant get rid of...

Are there books or somethings that can help me understand and help me deal with this?

Answer 1

spend time with ur cousin as much as you can,and cry it all out,then go to therapy [if needed],and and realize,that it is life.

Answer 2

sweetie it is a part of life when i was 11 i saw my cousin george die i went inside my tias house to get something to drink and when i was walking outside a car creeped up and started to shoot my cousin grabed me and held me down on the floor i felt warm and wet on my back he was shoot 4 times he died i was screaming for someone to call 911  

Answer 3

i think that every family thats big go through this i went through this2 uncles grandfather,cousin in 1 year started in january ended in december so i know how you feel there's only one true way for peace and thats jesus christ it will get better its just a season .

Answer 4

No therapy needed !!!!! omg

death is like a clock it keeps ticking without returning or stoping ..he fact is we all die .. im sorry but you have to accept this.I know its sad and heartbreaker but this is how life goes on

i think you should be arround him alot and make him feel happier than ever sleep over if you have to .. give hi some new games and dolls to play with .

goodluck  

Answer 5

all of you will meet in heaven 1 day