How do you get a Taurus man to spend more time with you?

Question

We are engaged to be married. I never cramp his style. I"m an Aries so I need my space too. Lately, I've wanting to spend more time together and he doesn't put anymore effort in hooking up. We went from dating for a 1 1/2 years to becoming engaged. I just some pointers on how to handle him, in this type of situation, without it turning into an argument. If he doesn't see my point, he's very hard to convince. Thanks for all of your positive answers:)

Answer 1

first step is ditching the horoscope stuff, that and 5 cents will buy you a stick of bazooka gum- and I don't even think you can even get that for 5 cents anymore....

secondly, talk to him. if you are engaged to be married then having a conversation where you tell him how you feel without making it HIS fault or something he is doing wrong and making it a "positive wish list" will be something you will need to master for conflict resolution skills throughout the marriage- HE should learn it too.

tell him how you feel and that you would feel happier if you could find some extra time together and see what he says- ask him, ask him that you wish he would make more of an effort and let him make suggesstions too. just don't make it like a "here is what you do wrong" list- make it a "what can I do better, and this is how i feel list and what you can do better list".

always talk about things like this in the context of how YOU feel not by demanding him to do something.

Answer 2

i dont put much stock into astrology stuff, but idk, you have to be patient because tauruses are stubborn and require being finessed. ha ha ha.