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How do you get a family member out of your house who is doing drugs?

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He was released from prison almost 2 years ago and has been at my residents since then. Now i need to know what I can or have to do to get him out of my home.

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  1. tell him you found a stash by the garbage cans outside then lock the doors when he goes and gets it if he bangs on the door call the cops and   tell them he is using drugs and you dont want him there anymore good luck


  2. just tell him to get out, but you could make this easier for him by maybe helping him to buy or rent a flat, and make him feel loved but just explain that maybe you dont have room or you dont think it is a good idea for him to be living with you for the moment

  3. uh tell him he needs to go. help him find a cheap place to live or send him to a friends. help find him a job if its needed. tell him you dont want drugs in your home or else youll call the cops. its a bad deal but you need to do whats good for you.  

  4. I can tell you from personal experience that throwing a drug using family member out of the house doesn't solve the problem.  That person will continue to be a burden on the family and even if you don't hear from them for ages, they will turn up and cause yet another disaster as some point.

    If they die from an overdose or get sent to prison, it still remains a source of grief.

    The only answer is to help them get clean.  Call up your nearest Narconon facility and help them get off the drugs and start a new life.  It costs money, but Narconon are getting 60% to 70% rehabilitation rates for drugs like heroin when other competing methods advertise about 7%.

    So you are more likely to get the result you want.  

  5. Call the police and tell ask them to come to your house to make him leave.  Once the police has kicked him out change the locks immediately.  Be on high alert b/c he will hang outside your house for a while trying to convince you to let them back in.  Be strong and stick to your guns.  

    You can not do it on your own, it will be hard put you have to get the police involved.

    It is next to impossible to reason with a person that is on drugs

  6. If he's doing drugs in your home, call the police.

  7. Ummm, tell hnim to leave. Simple as that. Give him like 2 weeks to find a new place. You do not need to let someone stay in your home, no matter who. Boot em

  8. I would definilty give him an ultimatum. Let him know that you are NOT going through that and if he is not out in X amount of days, the locks will be changed.

    His behaviour is not acceptable and cannot have an impact on you anymore. I also recommend getting into a program like Nar-Anon or Al-Anon (for friends and family members of addicts) to help you cope with the consequences and effects his abuse had on your life. Hope it helps!

  9. Talk to him CLEAR.

    If he doesn't listen, call the police.

    As simple as that!

    Or else you could shift your residence without giving him the new address...

  10. GET A COURT ORDER AND GO TO POLICE! THIS PERSON IS BAD NEWS AND WILL DO DRUGS AGAIN! he will rip you off any way he can to get drug money!

  11. you may have to file a eviction notice against him  to legally remove him from the property if he has any warrants or is doing drugs again turn him to cops or po wait for him to leave and change the lock on the door and put something in the windows to block entry if he still comes in get him for breaking in the house my mom went through something like this with my sister tough love is the only way good luck to you

  12. threaten to call the DEA

  13. Boy is this real, ask him to get his own space.

    You don't need a Degree to know that one...ba dumb dumb

    It's is your problem.

  14. send him to the store for milk........and change your locks then when he comes back ( high ofcourse) call the cops and say he's trying to break in

  15. ha ! sorry im in the same situation

    my uncle got out of prison about ten months ago

    and is doin drugs and his mother knows it !

    she just says dont let b in my home

    i just cant seem to prove it her that he is !

    i would try telling her though

    -it didnt work for me but goodluck  

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