How do you get a guy that you've never spoke to before to like you?

Question

my friend (yea i do REALLY mean my friend) thinks this boy looks really "hot" in our school,, she's been told he's nice. He's a year above. we're going back to school in 1 day and she really wants to get to know him. Ive told her to smile at him but im c**p xD what could she do,, without lookin like a freak? (: thanks.. me and my mate appreciate it (: x*x

Answer 1

Talk to him, really, just try that, it's not so difficult.

Answer 2

well why don't you tell your friend to yeah smile at him when she sees him by himself start a small conversation with him and then when time going by if he likes her attitude if he likes her then he'll probably ask for her phone number and then ask her out on a date

Answer 3

In dating/courting...these things are NATURAL.

So appeal to human nature. Smiling is a good idea. A good thing to do is 'observe him from afar'. By that I mean try and (without stalking!!) get a little bit of insight as to what he's about. If he carries an ipod, try and find out what he's into. If he carries a guitar case, ask him about it.

...she needs to make a move. If this huy's hot - then she needs to move fast.

By moving fast, I don't mean throw herself at him. Just smile and say hi. sk him a question where he has to say 'YES'. (Like "it's hot today, isn't it?') Try and get his opinion on something...(idea for a gift for a cousin his height)...or ask him for help. Soften your tone and emphasize your femininity (ie 'weakness').

Don't flatter him. DO NOT flirt with guys to 'make him jealous'...DO NOT do that. Be friendly and generous. Not generous with money, but with your ears, time and heart. Massage his ego, by making comments that make him feel clever, or strong or cool. Make him feel manly/important.

Ask him about his studies, what he wants to do...what he likes. Also - show that YOU have interests/hobbies and ambitions.; Try and find out what the 2 of you have in common. Maybe you can join/help/teach each other. If he plays sport, maybe you can cheer his team on. If he plays an instrument, listen to his recordings...or visit him(?)

The other thing is to touch his upper arm, between shoulder and elbow. Rub it whilst thanking him, or asking for help. This is a guy's weak spot for a woman. She gets to 'lock in' to his comfort zone.

Be yourself, be sincere. You don't know if you actually like him yet! So find out. It's important not just to 'get' him, but to feel that you are a MATCH, otherwise it's pointless. Does he even like you?? If he likes you, and you like him...but he's shy...just tell him you like him - don't expect him to mind-read!

Off the bat, present your personality as you, don't pretend. Who knows...you may become an item!!

Anyway, be happy....keep track of your studies (number one), don't neglect your friends...be sincere Stay SAFE.

~UKJazzCat!!