How do you get a playboy to be faithful?

Question

He lives this lifestyle, and yet.. I want him to be all mine. He's the sweetest guy ever. And beautiful. And Old School, Ivy League. Does a guy like this ever settle down? What does a woman do to be his true love?

Answer 1

Sorry, but there is only one person that you can control and that is yourself.

No mather what you do, it will be his decision to be faithful or not to you. Some "playboys" as you call them, do draw the line when married and stop seeking other females. Others wont stop even in marriage. At the end it will be his decision.

Answer 2

You just change the definition of faithful.

Answer 3

if you're looking for a faithful father and husband, wait till he does change on himself. in the meantime, stop dreaming that you can handle it. this is just another symptom of "oh i love him and he'll change." you say so coz you love him. if not for that, he'll look that ugly.

know your rights and play your role rationally.

Answer 4

either of you would need a frontal lobotomy.

Answer 5

Why would you want to turn him into something he's not?

Either love him and accept him for who he is, or let him find someone who will.

Answer 6

Not worth trying in my opinion.  I left my ex for that very reason.  I know I'm not Helen of Troy, but if a man is that *ussy whipped, he's just not for me.  It mainly has to do with respect though, not so much the s*x part, if you know what I'm saying.

Answer 7

The reason why he can manage to get into bed with so many women is because these women thought they can make him faithful.

Don't think too highly about yourself.

To him, you are just a piece of meat or disposable object.

I had read many similiar cases.

Sooner or later, you will come back here and whine aboout men like him.

Answer 8

Why would you want to?  The reason for the attraction is the very thing you want to change!!!

Answer 9

Let the player play. You should focus on your relationship with your husband.

Answer 10

It's like the saying goes "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife".

Answer 11

Give it up. Even you can't change the spots of a leopard.

The best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour.

You are asking for heartache.

Answer 12

With great difficulty

Answer 13

A guy like that is not going to settle down until he is quite a bit older, and then he will settle down with a much younger woman.

Answer 14

Pull a Lorena Bobbitt on him.  He can't doodle without his noodle....But seriously, nobody should waste their time on a man who cheats.  Don't bother wasting your time trying to win the love of a cheater, because he's not really interested in that and he won't appreciate you.  You will only end up knocking yourself out for NOTHING while he screws your best friend.

Answer 15

Get knocked up