How do you get a teen help when she has these problems???

Question

My sister is 15 years old, my mother has been sleeping in her bed for years now. My parents do not sleep together bc they are more like roommates than husband/wife. They are on the cusp of getting a divorce. My mom could have the option of having two beds in my sisters room but decided to buy a queen size bed and share. They can be found cuddling up like "lovers" at night... I caught them and I was very disturbed by it. I recently a month ago moved back home. I had no idea this was going on for Ive been out of my parents home for almost 6 years. My 23 yr old sister has caught my 15 yr sister doing very disturbing things and I do not know how to get her help. She has been caught on numerous occasions eating her own f***s, letting the dog l**k her private area and recently started finding amusement in torturing and killing the frogs near our house. This has all been brought up to my both my parents and my mom claims she is just a normal teen...and my dad says he cant do anything if my mother doesn't meet him halfway. And of coursee my middle sister when she catches my younger sister doing these thingsdoesn'tt say anything to her (I would have). I cannot live in this house no longer due to these circumstances and will be moving out ASAP my problem is I dont want this to go on any longer... I feel the psychological and maybe even sexual abuse is there between my mom and my sister and I want it to stop. I cant move out right away because I dont have the means to do so right now... but how do I get this teen help without rocking the boat and getting kicked out??? HELPPPPPPP

Answer 1

Contact family services or the police, or even better both. Your sister's behaviour is alarming.

Good Luck. X :-)

Answer 2

How can you not rock the boat. Your sister is mentally ill. If your mother and father won't help her, call family services. There isn't a normal teenager alive who does those things.  

Answer 3

First ofall you needsomeone to help you intervene, maybe an older

uncle,aunt, or a school counselor where the girl goes to, its obvious

her behavious isnot normaland yourmoms behavious also is out of

wack,has anybodyconfronted her about these issues inthe home?

Answer 4

Well sweetie your younger sister isn't a normal teen. Who does those things at that age? No one. Look YOU need to confront them and be honest with both of them. You need to say " Look I know you both have some explaining to do but first I need to say something". " I know what has been going on between the both of you and I think this is wrong. Mom why are you sleeping in her room? Are you having a sexual  relationship with her or something?". Just be honest with the both of them. She shouldn't be sleeping in there . Her daughter isn't a baby anymore. I'm beginning to think that she doesn't want her to grow up. Your sister on the other hand needs a reality check. I mean take her to a therapist to get her help. This isn't normal for a teen you know that and her mom is I am think hiding something. So talk this out with  them. Let them know if they don't stop it will just get worse

Good Luck Sweetie

Answer 5

Well, your mother and sister cuddling up on the bed together at night i can understand. Teenage girls like affection. Although we do not share a room, i do that with my 15 year old little sister ( in a non incestuous way ) but eating her own f***s, letting the dog l**k her private area and torturing frogs does not sound like normal behavior. That is the sort of behavior i would expect from someone with a sever learning disability. You said that your other sister told you that she had been doing all these things, so i assume you have never actually witnessed them yourself. Is it possible that your other sister has been lying  to you ?

Answer 6

report it to the department of social services.....they will investigate the situation.  but if your sister is doing all these things, she needs help and probably have to  be put in an institution.  What you can try to do is to befriend your sister and see if you can get her to talk.  Other than this....you need to tell your mom, that your sister eating fecal matter and killing things IS NOT NORMAL. and that if they do not get her help, that you will have to report it,  You could actually get custody of your sister if you are financially able to care for her.  but she needs help......but something is going on, because normal kids don't do what she is doing.