How do you get over a horrible day at work? And would u be hacked off after this day?

Question

I had to interview a guy who was homeless this afternoon. He was drunk and very abusive and aggressive to me. We had a plastic screen in between us but it was still scary. He was shouting and sreaming that i was f_ing this and f_ing that calling me liar and things. Anyway i kept my cool and stood up and just said that the interview was over and walked away. So about an hour later i left work to go to the gym, got halfway there and realised i had left my sports bra at work, turned around and went back, got my bra and thought i may as well just get changed at work for the gym, pulled my pants out of the bag and they were the wrong ones and covered in paint!!! Nearly cried lol!! So just thought **** it all and came home!! The worst thing is, is that i am in by myself tomorrow and i had to send a letter to a landlord about something, and from past experience with this guy, i know that he will also ring and shout at me!!

Answer 1

So...

You had to deal with someone who was verbally abusive towards you... and you were not able to do your regular work out... and a pair of other pants were ruined by paint...

...and that is what qualifies as a horrible day for you ?

Answer 2

yes  ..I  used  to  do  social  research   had  to  go  to  this  house  and  interview  said  person   girlfriend  of  said  person  was  there  really  drunk  or  on  something  did  interview  with  correct  person  ..then  got  locked  in  ,she  wanted  my  shoes  because  she  liked  them  tried  to  sell  me  DVD  player  ,  told  me  my  tyres on  my  car  were  in  process  of  being  removed  ,refused  to  let  me  out  of  house  till  I  did  survey  with  her  also ..... All  because  she  wanted  freebie  pen   . Wat  really  p*******  me  was  said  householder  just  sitting  there  like  t**t   letting  me  get  all  this  abuse  .now  that's  a  bad  day......     went  home  told  my  employer  sorry  not  going  back  there  .as  if  they  cared  .......had  red  vino  got  over  it  next  day  was  great  so  all  is  not  lost

Answer 3

Hi,go & have a nice hot bubble bath.you will feel 100%

Answer 4

you did your best in a bad situation. we all ahve days like that. best to not let thing's get to you. and remeber tomorrows a new day.

Answer 5

sounds like you are a bit of a plonker yourself, ...argument with a guy in trouble, lost your bra, painted knickers, no wonder your alone tomorrow,

Answer 6

so your dss are you, poor you . my friend is and guess what went through same experience, but that person waited for her after work, she got to her car, never opened it, the bloke stabbed her, she recovered, so take care, when you resume dealing with this person, though i expect you have some lovely people to deal with.

Answer 7

You were definitely tried and tested. The main thing is that you survived the interview with that crazed person. When it rain it pours. Sometimes even before you leave home you get this funny feeling that things aren't going to go right  for you today.

You also wanted to go to the gym and new problems arose, you were very strong so you never screamed. Next you had to deal with your landlord, another crisis, what the heck - 3 strikes and you are out.

You lived to tell the tale. Can you imagine there are worse crisis that is happening to others, you got off lightly. You have to take it with a grain of salt, because you definitely don't know what tomorrow brings. These crisis will make you stronger, we are all tested in a different ways. Some can survive and others can't. When people are sleeping on the streets, it is their test that they have failed and weren't able to handle the situation that was given to them at that time.