How do you get over a person whom you considered best-friend?

Question

I knew him for 30yrs we did school together. But we became best friends only lately after we re met after many yrs . He deceived me by his ego centrism, disregard and disrespectful hints. I took everything as my own misunderstanding, but he refused my complains and demand to change his attitude, saying he had enough of my bursts !

I ended all contacts with him, but he seemed to be happy about that.

He was the one who wanted us to become closer, saying how much he respects and admires me. His behavior proved the opposite. What do u think?

Answer 1

sounds like he just wanted to control you.

break all contact with him ,because he isnt going to change and find someone who will accept you for who you are!

Answer 2

i am going thru the same awkward feelings..my friend had been around close for over 30 years and recently she left her husband, and she changed, that was ok but then she started gossiping about me and talking down to me and i dont know what to think. i just have nothing to do with her and am just waiting on her to make the first step. meantime my feelings are truly hurt.

Answer 3

He's not your best friend.  If he were a stranger at this point, would you like him?  Look around you  and consider your other friends, or people who could be your friend.  Sometimes we block out others when we think we have a best friend.  Give them a chance.  Consider this a life experience that you can share with others.  That's how we grow.

Answer 4

I think e s not a gud frnd. Gud frnd in need nevr try to control or overcome other. thank god at least now u understand hm. dont break d frnshp. just keep d distanse and continue wit him. all d best to find v gud frnd.